Is it wrong that I watch porn that reminds me of my ex-boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Is it wrong for me to watch porn that reminds me of my ex-boyfriend? When I am currently in a relationship?

[sawno]

This is wrong, but the reason its wrong is a deeper than just a morality thing.
Ask yourself why you look at porn of your ex specifically while your with a new guy. Something doesn't add up here, what about your ex is he not fulfilling? Do you truly love him? Does he not turn you on?
Its indicating a deeper issue.

[wankiam]

not sure if its wrong... i watch porn where the girl will look like my ex and i think watching them have sex with someone else is weird but also very arousing and in some ways helps me accept the fact we aren't together anymore... maybe thats part of whats happening for you too

[Anonymous]

Talk to your boyfriend about the porn you like, and why. Maybe you two can roleplay.

[ohshee]

Well I'm not in a relationship but if there's a girl that I'm attracted to I will try to find pouring that the girl kind of looks like her or sounds like her

[PurSeduction]

No its not wrong. This is something that happens many do...

The problem is if you fantasies and keep being in things and cravings you once had and do not have anymore you waste time and in worse cases can create an "never ending" obession.

[Mofunfour20]

Its called pair bonding. Its why women call their ex bfs, 🍆. Its why women cheat on their husband. Women can't ignore a man they respect, drives them crazy

[boggboss]

How would u feel if your partner watched porn that reminded him off his ex dont be a goon

[BeenThereLovedIt]

We all think about other people in bed.

We all lie about it.

If you think you don't, you are probably lying to yourself too.

[humpbackjack]

Is this something that you’ve told your SO and is your SO cool with it cause I’d say definitely out of bounds? How would you feel if your SO did the same thing?

[pushingrope]

Porn is only bad if it starts desensitizing you to actual intimacy and starts to water down feelings for your partner, or if it begins to become compulsive, or an addiction, or causes you to start cheating on him, or desire to start cheating. It it reaches those points it has become an addiction and you need to stop. If it does not negatively impact your life or relationships that is. Different story.

[VDrago14]

Not really, especially if sex with him was great.

[Nik1hil]

Yeah... It's wrong...
Because you are in relationship with someone else...

I watch porn of an actress that looks like My college crush...
So It's not wrong since.. I am single.. 😂🤣
Another great joy of being single

[VikingWarLord]

I used to be in porn, I wonder if my porn scenes would make you think of him too

[Iron_Man]

Yes…

[oncpl]

It's common especially having great sex with an ex.

[Wise4myage]

I think its fine, just don't get obsessed over it.

[noohair]

There might be an issue there.
I would guess most men would have a problem with that.
If this guy is the one, well, I don't think he is the one.

[Orangeandturquoise]

Nah. It's just unhealthy to cling to the past. But you do you :)

[Morgan_99]

Not if it gives you comfort and possible closure to the break up.

[EQisKEY]

No... the novelty is alluring.

[Luckycharms12]

What do you think really

[Asker]

I don't think it's wrong cause I think everyone has their own personal preferences, and I don't intrude on what porn my partner chooses to watch etc that's his business. But sometimes I just feel like I am doing something wrong

[Luckycharms12]

Having a fantasy different to think about an ex

[Asker]

Oh ok I see. So you think it's wrong then

[Luckycharms12]

Yes thinking about ex always wrong not right for new guy or you.

[Asker]

Okay thanks

[Luckycharms12]

No problem

[REDHOTLINE]

Its a real stupitizm. Find an new boy for sex

[Waldoe]

everyone has a secret "Kink" enjoy