Is it wrong to be offended my boyfriend said “suck my dick”?

I feel like it’s rude to say, makes me feel degraded
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If he said “hey baby, you wanna do something” or like even say “can I get head please” anything other than SUCK MY DICK, it’s rude and harsh and it’s not like we were in a middle of a steamy sex session either. We were in public
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  • Okay so what was going on where you guys having sex or something and he got all hot and bothered and said suck my dick or were you just driving down the road and all of a sudden he says suck my dick did he do it in a mean voice did he do it in a teasing voice or was it out of the blue and he was trying to control you manipulate you telling you to suck his dick and if that's the case you should have left and said suck your own fucking dick and then you should have said how dare you talk to me like that why don't you put a little bit of romance into it don't try to control me cuz that would never work and to be honest with you you have every right in the world to be offended and at the same time this is a good opportunity for you to really look at something he just proved to you who he really is he just proved to you who he's going to be in the future I mean there's no reason why he couldn't have been making out with you and got you all hot and bothered and said hey baby will you suck my dick but when he demands it that's wrong and he's just showing you who he's going to be in the future so now you have to make a couple choices but believe me when I say he just showed you exactly what he's going to be if you allow him to manipulate you and force you into doing something you don't want to do he will keep doing it so pay attention to that remember you don't have to do anything you don't want to do and you guys had sex yet even

    • Like I said sometimes when things happen it's meant to happen in all reality he's showing you and telling you who he is who he really is and now you either have to accept that or you have to deny it and say oh he won't do it again but you'll find out if you decide to stay what I mean it will just get worse

  • I hate when guys just blurt that out! as if they own you! mainly BOYS under 30 say things like that! Men ask politely and in a gentle way

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  • Would you tell him lick your Clit?

    If you’re both the dirty talk type he could have said it thinking it’d turn you on cuz you both like each other’s bodies etc.

    If you both conversate a lot for example and don’t hit the bdsm/ 50 shades of grey then he kind of ordered it

    and he’s stupid for such a thing

    maybe play it safe and say it next time to him

    “Lick my clit”

    and see how he responds

    decide from there ig

    • Update: thanks for added context, with that dump him. Also because you already made up your mind about it so I don't know what anyone else here is supposed to say. We can agree with you, but it’s ultimately your decision. ~Best of all 👍

    • @RosieMelts perfectly said! Gurl you are one smart firecracker. 😎

    • @JPresidente lmao I thought this was mother fcker instead of firecracker, and I was like “yeah! Okay!” 😆 (I’m straight as a FYI to all lesbs on here 👐), but yeah, love the energy Presidente 😆😝

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  • most of the time boyfriends ask for blowjobs using that exact line not unusual and you shouldn't be offended per se... yes it can be taken as rude.

  • It is rude.

    • It’s one thing to be in the moment and you are feeling the vibe but is uncalled for as out of nowhere order 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • Ya it wasn’t even in the bedroom and it just sounded aggressive. I’m pretty sure he meant it to be degrading

    • Sorry… that pretty much dries everything up… Middle East desert 🐪…. Stupid 💩 like that but women version make it go limp in a heartbeat. Relationships 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • it's not "wrong"... but kinda stupid.

  • Respond with: "I have sharp teeth." Make him think twice!

  • It's wrong if you don't like it and you need to tell him that. For me it's a turn on.

  • NO because I jump on his chest and sit on his face and say EAT ME!

  • If you were in public, it was innapropiate. Also if you don't like dirty talk he should respect you and refrain from strong language

  • It would be nice if he used some diplomacy. "Would you please suck my dick?"

  • Yes, it's a form of degrading you and you have every right to be offended

    hell, I would never say that to any girl.

  • Normally, the things my guitarist would say were not only strange but very funny and they were meant to be funny but, one day, I was at his place and he said to his girlfriend, "Carol, my dick is dirty, it needs cleaning. Will you suck it for me?" My singer was there with us and we all laughed, at first but, after a moment, I didn't think it was all that funny and found it insulting to her.

    For a guy just just demand that you suck his dick is pretty rude and assuming, unless you like being talked to that way. If he were to ask, nicely, that's another story!

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  • It's: “suck my dick PLEASE”

  • No, many men ask like that.

  • It is not wrong if you have consented to being spoken to like that. Some people find it a turn-on. If you don't, your boyfriend should respect your wishes or find himself a new girlfriend.

  • It's not the most dignified thing he could have said to you, but I don't think it's worth getting offended about.

  • He thinks you are into that sort of thing but you and I know you our into romance. Tell him that.

  • It’s kind of condescending to say.


    I don't know, depends on the tone of voice and context

  • naw that's fine. in public this isn't ok.

  • No it's not wrong to be offended, it's never wrong to be offended by anything, whether something is right or wrong comes into play in how one acts on their offense. Talk with him about it, he can understand you see it as demeaning and you can understand he probably doesn't mean it in a demeaning way, or if he does only in the sexual sense. It's all about talking and understanding one another and taking intent as priority over our own subjective interpretations.

  • It depends on you. If you're a sub in a way, you would love to hear it. If not, then it's offensive.

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