Is it wrong to be seeing a married man?

[babyjjade18]

Im having see with a guy, he's married with no kids. Should i feel guilty or just carry on regardless? Its been a hot 6 months and i dont want to stop

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Let’s be honest, It’s hot… Because he’s a married man. Isn’t it? 😜

You feel like there’s another woman’s man being at your feet and making you feel like you are the sexiest woman in the world. Sexiest, because he cheats with you on his wife.

However, one day you realize, he’s just one middle aged stinky man who can’t even make his wife orgasm. He’s someone who made another woman feel the same way you feel now and then cheated on her with someone much younger.

I think the biggest thing, we fail to realize when we are 18 is that only the dead stay 18 forever, so in a blink of an eye someone will fuck your lover or a husband and they’ll feel that it’s so hot to have a man who has a wife waiting at home. She’ll be thinking “He chose me over the woman he’s supposed to love forever, I must be a special woman.”

Nope, you are not. Someone who can break the trust of a person who loves them will easily throw anyone else away when it’s needed.

So, don’t make him use you.

There are lots of things I find very hot. But I’d be a horrible person if I did all of them.

If you are okay with yourself, then you do you, but I promise, that will be a bitter lesson.

Good luck and hope, it won’t hurt too much when life shows you the lesson of it 💖

[ShesRad80]

depends on your moral compass. i guess best thing would be put yourself in the wife's shoes how would you feel? it's something i don't partake in but it is your life. we can all say its wrong- but only you can make your own decision. welcome to adulthood

[Staximus]

Would you like some woman screwing your husband if you had one? Do you think his wife will retaliate against you? Be prepared to fight her at the least. You're asking for trouble. Unless he's getting divorced, you are settling for being his number 2 woman. Why would you want to be the less important woman in some guy's life when you could be the most important woman in some other guy's life? Unless you don't care and you're only in it for the sex. Just go find a single guy. It should be easy enough, you're no mud bird.

[ohsheeT]

I guess maybe the best thing to do is ask his wife and if you can't do that the next best thing to do is just be patient because after his wife and him break up he will go his own way you will have to go your own way and then you will find another love of your life and then maybe you can ask the girls that he's going to date well he's with you because it will happen again

[katiesmuff]

I think that would qualify as a thoughtless slut!

[musicbrain5]

Yes, it’s wrong. He’s cheating on his wife, and none of this will end well for any of you. Imagine how heartbroken she will feel when she finds out.

[RobT312]

fine if it works for you, but I guess just know statistically it almost never ends well for the homewrecker

[reds-noro]

You should not feel guilty. He is at fault for cheating. But either force him to break up with his current partner (quite selfish, but if the guy is willing to cheat his marriage has already failed anyways) or just stop. It's for the better.

[Samantha36]

It's wrong on his part.

[summiter]

Why would you want to screw up his marriage? I know you are not making him have sex with you and it is probably a dream come true to be having sex with an 18 yr old (if you really are 18).
If yiu continue I hope you are using condoms every time.

[LazerBean]

Obviously.

[desidoll]

It is wrong if the wife doesn’t know about it.

[Ali4Sy]

Of course it's wrong... Let him get the divorce then see him again... It's inappropriate to date a married man
I don't mean to hurt you but I'm thinking logically here , does his wife know?
Remember if he is cheating then he will cheat on you after a time

[richardcory]

I wouldn't worry about the right / wrong question. Instead ask if you are hurting anyone - including your self. Will you be hurt if he ends things with you? From what you know about him will his wife be hurt of do you think it will just make it easier for her to get a divorce? Do you know why he wants sex outside of his marriage?

[Gent207-2]

How do you spell homewrecker?

He needs to get a divorce or go back to his wife!

[normalice]

It is a tale as old as time and in the grand scheme of things it doesn't matter, but perhaps you should ask yourself why you feel it is "hot" and whether or not that's really something you want to find hot.

[Finchie40]

Cheating is wrong period , even though you aren’t really the one that is cheating you are only turned on by the fantasy of having a married man wanting
You instead of his wife , He is the one that is more in the wrong by going back to his wife acting like he loves her when really he doesn’t , he only loves himself , If he truly loved and valued his wife he wouldn’t be cheating on her period , He is a selfish POS that only cares about himself , if he was an actual Man he would end it with his wife so she could go find herself a real man that will love and value her and not cheat on her

[Paige90]

I have done that. Are you having sex with him too?

[slatyb]

If you are content with just the sex, go ahead. If you imagine that he will divorce his wife for you, I think that's unlikely. Also keep in mind that you might not be that only other woman he's seeing.

[MementoMori777]

yes..

[AviatorTom]

To answer your question... Put yourself in his wife's shoes. Would you want your husband fucking another woman?

[Bricealan]

Bang his brains out babyjjade18

[Dargil]

You should stop. That is Adultery.

[ProbablyClueless]

Yes, it is wrong.

[RealMarek]

Yes, and it’s unhealthy in the long run. Disadvantages: You’re the side girl, not the main priority for this guy and not someone he can recognize. Depending on the lengths she might go to out of vindictiveness, you are putting yourself in danger if his wife finds out. If this fellow divorces and commits to you, you will be with a known cheater who can do the same to you as he did to his ex.

[sheikalana]

Ask this question to yourself. You know the right answer for you.

[exitseven]

How would you like it if some younger girl did that with your husband?

[Jazzy54]

If you were his wife and he was doing this to you, how would you feel? Just think about it.

[babyjjade18]

I dont need to think about it.. I've had it done to me

[Jazzy54]

And you were heartbroken, right? Why cause someone else that same heartbroken? Look, all I’m saying is this. You would want a man who’s faithful and only wanted YOU, right?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yes its wrong.
You both already ruined his marriage though, so its a bit late for asking that question.

Neither of you are marriage material. Whats probably going to happen is that he will get divorced, be with you for a bit, then dump you for some other girl. Eventually people will learn of this, and that you go after married men, and then the both of you will end up alone, because no one wants to be with home wreckers.

[kellytheman]

Yeah you might be considered a homewrecker but I feel he is more in the wrong cheating on his wife. It kinda good there are no kids involved but you need stop and find a single guy.

[zebronics]

Yes, being a women you should have understood what it feels like cheated on🌱💔

[BrookeS]

You are the other woman. He is cheating on his wife with you

[Christoff92]

Well are you making him very happy then his marriage. Me just keep my business to myself.

[LavLavLuv]

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[Surely]

Only if you wouldn’t mind your husband screwing another woman!

[boobliker]

it you steel him some one may steel him from you.

[DrewJohnson]

If not you, it'll be someone. You might as well be the girl enjoying the sex.

[Manuel2]

You will never be truly happy or your kids. He is using you as a cheap whore and you have no legal rights.

[peterrezeeek]

its ok go on

[Awantika03]

Don't break 💔 his marriage

[SmokinAces2000]

Why are you asking this like you are incapable of telling right from wrong

[Dargil]

They want permission or justification.

[9214xs]

Do you know his wife? If not then just carry on and enjoy yourself, he's doing the wrong thing not you!

[CubaPirate]

The fact that you're asking is obvious that you know it is. And remember you're only what goes around comes around

[Rohaan2020]

If you’d be ok with ur boyfriend or husband in future seeing other girls then its fine to be with this man you’re talking about

[Tigerlilly852]

This won't end well

[QuietRunner]

Most people will say yes, but if it works for you then do it

Just know it will most likely end badly for everyone involved

[Amur8711]

Does the wife know?

[Jmmmfi4]

Very wrong... obviously

[Yellovv]

Seem like he is using you for your pussy.

[riverrat3]

live your life

[justabuddy]

Weman do this all the time. I'll be honest, it's wrong and a huge turn off.

[Anonymous]

Yes, definitely wrong. If you were his wife and he was cheating on you, how would you feel? It's not fair to go blow up someone else's life.

For the record, he's 1000% at fault since he is the one who took a vow and broke it. But you're equally guilty if you know he's married and are doing this anyway.

[Anonymous]

I like married guys they usually aren't getting sex from their wives, they're very easy to get along with and I can come and go as I please.

[Romeo0071234]

Basically you like the idea of no strings attached or is it because the excitement of doing something taboo sort of speak?

[Anonymous]

You know it’s wrong but life isn’t black and white.

[Opinion Owner]

The thing is you know he’s a cheater so if he ever decides to leave his wife for you he would cheat on you too.

[Anonymous]

It's alright, it's just a piece of paper these days.

[Anonymous]

As long as you feel good about it and you both know what you want, it's okay. He cheats and has to carry the burden. But you should never get involved. As soon as you fall in love I would end it