Is it wrong to be selfish sexually and only do things that make you happy, or are you supposed to compromise?

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  • Anyone with the mindset of or similar to "I am going to do what I want to so I enjoy it sand get off whether you get off or not, enjoy it or not does not matter" is not mature enough to me for sex. To me those involved shoild enjoy it together.

  • Yeah it's wrong.

  • Part of the satisfaction of sex is knowing your partner enjoyed it as much as you.

    It is a total turn on when I know my girl is about to cum.

    It's amazing

  • It is selfish. But you are allowed to do that. Can’t guarantee you will have a guy for long tho

  • You're supposed to compromise or you're not really in a good relationship

  • I look at sex as a means for both parties to enjoy themselves. If you do nothing for your partner and do everything for you then its not a partnership.

  • You do whats comfortable for both you you both talk about what you won't do

  • It's a two-way street. You scratch their back, they scratch yours.

  • You're supposed to find things that you both like.

  • yeah, very wrong, you are supposed to compromise

  • Generally this "It's my body so i can screw people without any rules or anything for me" thing has gotten out of hand. Sex is a mutual action. Intimacy is special. Why do so many girls think having sex is something you might do as a hobby? That is just prostitution but the male only pays by the effort he put to get his nody in the cliché shape

  • I always take care of my girl, then she takes care of me.

  • I like to please though is that selfish?

    • Awww no 🙂 but it might her think she's selfish

    • So annoying sometimes make me stop for a bj

  • Compromising and balance is always important although being selfish is ok sometimes

  • Compromise is right thing in long term relationship, it's matter of understanding each other,

  • for my love, Id do both!

  • You get one birthday a year, other than that, don't be a jerk. Sexual intercourse is an extension of intercourse, intercourse is a discussion, with both participants actively contributing something to change ultimately for the benefit of the other person. If you're not both concerned with pleasing your partner, why are you even having sex? Just take care of yourself alone.

  • If you are compatible, you don't have to compromise too much. But some compromise is needed at times. In general, any sexual act makes me happy and hopefully the same goes for my partner. Giving each other pleasure can bring happiness in a loving relationship!

  • Well I’m more of selfish. Sometimes I do compromise.

  • One can't clap with one hand..
    Sometimes it's okay to snap your fingers but not always 😉..

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