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Is it wrong to give my friend a handjob when he is sad?

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  • It's not "wrong," per se. But it's stepping over the boundaries of a platonic friendship if he's NOT your boyfriend. Being sad doesn't mean someone NEEDS a handjob, either. Maybe a hug would be more appropriate, but it sounds like this guy gets aroused by you, which is normal, but if you're only friends, his arousal will pass.

    Depression, on the OTHER hand is a serious issue and sexual contact is NOT going to solve this in the long term. I'd back off of this handjob when sad stuff and tell him to get help for his depression. Not through sex either, because you two are not boyfriend/girlfriend and he's using you or you're using him or both.

    I realize you see this as doing him a favor. You aren't. He needs to work on his emotional problems with a professional. You need to stop doing this. I don't know how it started, but maybe you two should take a vacation from each other to avoid this. Since it's become a habit, only not seeing each other will break you two of it. Good luck.

Most Helpful Girl

  • yes it is wrong to give your friend a handjob... you should've given him blowjobs

    • Less mess

    • @stratford that is true you can save yourself a kleenex

    • @chrissykerdock Hahahahaha this made me laugh out loud on a call at work hahaha. Lucky friends you have.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well, if there are clearly defined roles and understanding that you two are just friends then maybe it’s harmless but I think it’s probably going to (or already has) complicated things. What happens when you start seeing somebody romantically and he assumes he still has access to you sexually? What about if one of you start developing romantic feelings for one another? I’d be very careful as you proceed down this path.

    • This is what I would have said, but this wise man has already said it.

  • Yeah I think if I was your friend I would go into a deep depression I would be sad all the time I would want you to come over to my house all the time LOL

    Hey if it brings him out of depression why not I mean I wish I had a friend like you

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • That's the easiest way to tell your friend that you're a professional sad-times slut
    Girls.. 🤦

  • My guess is he is going to be sad quite frequently. 😅😂

    • @yesterdayschild you nailed it! LOL

    • I feel sad just hearing about it!

    • I would be sad 24/7 haha just happy for 1 min in between lol

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  • No you have you're own way to comfort him. And mostly after a rollercoaster of emotions, sex is the easy way to evacuate

    • I'm sad right now.. Can we friends? Lol

    • @BADASS22 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • 😘😘😂😂

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  • Sounds very nice of you to do such a nice thing for a sad friend.

  • You’re not a comfort woman.

  • Its only a handjob , that's nothing you may just make him a bit happier , a blow job may be a better idea.

  • that's kinda messed up ain't it?

    like rather than dealing with his sadness and emotional support, you give pleasure to distract him.

  • there have been times i've made friends un-sad, i think a lot of girls do this without ever saying anything about it

    • What's your most effective 'un-sad' move?

  • No I think it makes you a good friend. I'm clearly in the wrong social circles

  • It's not. A bj would be even more effective 🤞

    • I agree or just sucking on boobs

    • Less mess too.

    • A BJ would be a lot more effective.🤣🤣🤣

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  • No nothing wrong with that you are just helping out a friend

  • Friends don't give friends sexual favors.

  • Friends will be friends & what a wonderful friend you are & hopefully you bring a smile to his face more often & if you are ever said I hopefully he tickles your taco.

  • Before i got married I wish i would have had a friend like you. Will you show him your nice rack too or just the handy?

  • Not if you feel like it and he wants that. I probably wouldn’t do it but you go girl.

    • One warning though: if you like him like him and you think giving him a hand job is gonna make him like you back, it’s not.

    • Umm why would he request such a request, he likes her enough to trust her with his penis. Like come on now.

    • @turnpost no way. A guy will defo take a handjob from a girl even if he doesn’t like her that way.

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  • No, it's not. There are only two people who get to vote on that.

  • Not at all! I give mine more than that but you do what you’re comfortable with!

  • What kind of question even is this? One of the reasons I’m not on here as often is these type of stupid fucking questions

    • The trolls are trolling well recently.

    • @YesterdaysChild yup

  • Yes. Like who does that?

    Friend: ouch i stumped my toe.

    You *strokes him*

    Friend: thanks your such a good friend.

    You leave he calls his friends.

    Friend: bruh her dumbass fell for it again.

    • 😂🤣😅

    • I was planning this very move, now you've spoilt it 😂

    • Dream ladies only lol. Unicorns

  • Absolutely.

    That is what you do only in a romantic relationship or marriage.

    You don't randomly do that with a "friend".

    Don't you have any sexual values at all?

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