Is it wrong to lose your virginity to a single mom who is in their 40s?


I am a 28 year virgin guy, i always believed in true love and wanted to lose it to someone i would meet and settle down with in life. But to be honest the girls i liked never liked me back and i never found a girl who liked me at all to be honest. I am not rich and belong to the lower middle class, so off lately during this lock down I have become very horny and tired of masturbation and feel i want to fuck a pussy now. I heard from a friend that milfs are the best way to start my sexual experience and they will teach you a lot. so i joined tinder and matched with a 42 single mom who wants to have sex too. she has given me an offer which i really like which is to fuck her every Saturday as she is on leave every week on sat sun. My body wants sex but my mind still feels a bit like i should wait for someone in my life who i will marry. I am really confused. But i really want sex a lot and I am 28 years now and getting older so this is why i feel i should do it.

Your opinion would really be appreciated.
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  • You are 28 now and still have not found a gal who you liked and who liked you back. You will probably meet someone like that someday, but it could be many years from now. If you have decided to begin your sexual life now with someone who is compatible instead of waiting for a special someone, then her age does not really matter. You have already taken the time and effort to find a match on tinder. Do not worry that she is older, that will actually be better for you.

    Be honest with her, that this is temporary. And realize that you probably will not be available every Saturday and Sunday, though you should be most of the time. It sounds like for a temporary time, this would be great for both of you.

    • Thank you for MHGuy. :-)

  • Does she know you are a virgin? I'm not saying she will lose interest if she knows you are, but it's possible she is expecting a horny guy with some experience. Something else to be aware of is that she might be married and is looking for some side action (which would explain why she only available then), and THAT is definitely not a situation you want to get involved in.

    I tell guys who are virgins that it's better to lose your virginity to a girlfriend or wife that you really care about and are emotionally invested in, but it's not "wrong" to lose your virginity in a more casual set of circumstances. Don't lose it to a woman in a relationship or to a prostitute, though.

    • @avicenna she is divorced and has one kid.

    • OK, that's good that she's not in a relationship, but does she know you're a virgin?

    • @avicenna no i told her i was with one girl before and she told me apart from her husband she is not got physical with anyone else.

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  • I'm not used to questioning this so much. Is she ugly or something? Your values towards marriage are that strong that this is tearing you up? I never had such strong values here. I thought I was a late-bloomer not losing my virginity till university.

    • My thinking is to go for it but then again I'm a bit of an ass. But I don't see why you're questioning this in the first place unless you don't want her. The only time I get tied down with morals like this is when I'm in a relationship, like now, given that I'm married.

    • @drunkass my question was am i doing something wrong here by losing my virginity to a milf or should i wait for some one i may or may never find in the future. This is whats going in my mind and nothing else.

    • Wrong how? I do not have the context of God. I am an atheist. I do have the context of what it is like to be a man, to want, and desire, in ways no women can imagine (just as I'm sure we cannot imagine what it's like in their shoes, but they cannot imagine ours). I know when I was young and a virgin that I have not satisfied this desire -- but moreover -- curiosity. What is it like to be with a woman, to touch her body, to feel it, to have her trust in me to touch and do whatever with her? It is good to satisfy that desire IMHO. Do it ASAP.

  • There's nothing wrong with fucking for pleasure. My advice would be to go for it. An experienced woman could teach you rapturous pleasure that you never imagined.

  • Why not try it... you might be plesently surprised. She has had sex before and could show you the ropes so to speak. If you do not want to continue having sex with her then you can simply move on. Life is short... enjoy it while you can.

  • Slap yourself really hard... there are some thing u need to experance in life to understand things... being with a women is one of these... if you dont then your relationship is doomed to fail... you don’t develop the skills u need to keep a relationship. i belive the failure rates for this is life 99.6% ...

    • @wowie101 :(

    • I’m sorry but this world is too full of people not saying it how it is. You ask a question I will give you an honest answer... Even if it takes a slap in the head

    • @wowie101 I understand and thanks for your honest reply.

  • 12y difference is pretty big... :/

  • If all you want from her is to lose your virginity, this is wrong and you are objectifying her.

  • Go for it. All pussy is good pussy. It will also give you experience for your future wife.

  • I see nothing wrong

  • It's your decision and ai understand your frustration. I personally don't think a MILF is how you should start, but if you want to, I wouldn't stop you.

  • not wrong

  • Let her know you are a virgin, she could be a great teacher

  • Nope

  • Go for it. Have fun and take the opportunity to both have fun and get some skills.

  • You gay get a man and stop acting like a bitch be a bitch

    • Fuck you whore

  • I have become very horny and tired of masturbation and feel i want to fuck a pussy now... 🚶🏃🏃

    Is it wrong to lose your virginity to a single mom who is in their 40s?