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Guys how would you feel if your partner asked you to stop?
Is it wrong to tell my husband to stop masturbating?
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Guys how would you feel if your partner asked you to stop?
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I'm asking him to stop so I can pregnant. Not for any other reason. If this wasn't the case I wouldn't ask him to stop.
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If it shows that masturbating prevents pregnancy. He might stop at least until you have a kid
Haha I guess I'll have to bring in the professionals to tell him 😂
That might just do it
I would not like that! You may make him masturbate more. I masturbate at least 5 times or more a week! I have a super high sex drive my girl does not she knows that I am always horny all the time! She knows I masturbate this much she is ok with that! Sometimes not many she with give me a hand job or sometimes I masturbate in front of her! Maybe have sex before he masturbates so he had more sperm!
I would say that is controlling how would you feel if he asked you to do the same?
I see no harm in it. I would say most not all guys masturbate 3-5 times a week!
I do believe most guys masturbate more than girls and we start earlier than most girls!
I started to masturbate when I was 10!
I have been masturbating for over 50 years!
I'd do just about anything to get pregnant so I wouldn't care to give up something like masturbating. I've already talked to him and he agrees
As long he is ok with that! Cool!
His cum doesn't belong to you 😂😂 like why you being so dense.
Guys can cum more than once in a day. I get you want to improve your chances of getting pregnant, but its not about quantity, its about quality.
Freshly made cum is better than cum thats been sitting in his prostate for a week.
Weve already been trying for 6 months to get pregnant so I think it's a issue at this point
okay, so have you considered your own fertility aswell in this? You should both go for a family planning checkup, he can do a spermcount test and you can get hormones tested and check the health of your cervical lining etc (not 100% on what tests docs do). It seems strange how youve been trying for 6months and yet girls can get pregnant just with pre-cum.
Its acutally completely normal to have to try for a few months. My first two pregnancies were accidents but the more research I'm doing it seems like 3rd babies are the hardest to get pregnant with. Not sure why but have talked with tons of other women in the same sit as me
try not to stress about it and just keep having sex when you want not just because, if it happens it happens if it doesn't then it doesn't. i mean have you thought why he keeps masturbating. He may be doing it to de-stress. If i was you, consider going back to enjoying sex rather than focusing on getting pregnant. Its not about him not wanting another baby at all. Im surprised tho how so many women get their men to have a vasectomy. I kind of find it funny who is the one giving a helping hand in it (no pun intended).
Ah nah I need to keep trying for a baby. If not I'll probably be stuck with 2 and me and my husband are both very unsatisfied with that number if children
[tells her 2 children] "your mommy and daddy are dissapointed with what theyve currently got, your Daddy wants a football player and your mommy wants a singer" - Her children look at what they are and shrug -
Haha nah I'm not like that towards my kids. It's more the incomplete feeling for me and my husband thats the issue
omg youve turned into marge simpson 😯
I mean, having me he still needs to jack off? Thats kinda messed up. I won't force him not to, but its not a nice idea.
I am pretty sure it's not hard for a women to get pregnant from a guy who jerks off. Unless if there not performing correctly. But if you are i am pretty sure you can still get easy pregnant so i don't see why you would have to ask him. And well if your not performing proper then yeah it's okay to tell him.
It causes low sperm count
That is true but i don't think it effects that badly to the point she cannot get pregnant. Otherwise well birth control wouldn't be a thing really in most relationships cause we could just masturbate and now birth control is done she won't get pregnant which i am willing to bet that she would become pregnant.
Its really not that simple to get pregnant. There are a lot of people that takes months, years to get pregnant. Youd be suprised at how common it is to have to try for a baby. Childern that are accidents are really complete miracles.
Well haven't had much experience of it so you could be right. All i have learned though is it's too easy to get pregnant must use protection all the time otherwise baby gonna happen. Unless if there is something already wrong with either persons reproductive system.
I have had two kids in accident and yes those happened fast but that isn't always the case. Every person is different. Most of them time when trying it's harder then when not trying
I suggest you don't try then? It may happens faster Tbh that seems right when we ain't wanting something to happen it happens. Also could be a factor of stress on yourself to do it.
Its natural and very healthy
Don’t tell him to, ask him to and explain your reasoning. Hell, maybe tell him to edge himself.
He does not need to semen is a renewable resource.
Him masturbating won't effect your ability to get pregnant, he's not gonna run out of fucking sperm, goddamn.
A woman is born with the total number of eggs she'll ever have, a dude blows out whole country's populations worth of sperm on a daily basis.
Oh he could tho. On average a mans load had 1 million sperm. Only about 100 get close to the egg. That is on average so assuming if a guy is lower then normal from getting off everyday that 100 could easily turn into 0 at those odds
From a religious standpoint it would be justifiable, because their are religious bases to argue against that behaviour.
Unfortunately for you, there is no logical-secular basis to argue against masturbation.
its the request that it implies. The telling him to do something. Suggest to him, that it might be a good idea if he put less sperm in his tennis socks and more inside you! If you are trying to get pregnant, surely he also has his mind set on doing whatever it takes. Just don´t demand it from him. Make him realize it himself :)
Even regular masturbation doesn't reduce down count. I get it, but it doesn't change potency based on that. It's just self care both physical and mental.
Why do you want to ask your husband to stop doing one of the best things in life?
It's reasonable for that reason. Especially if he has low sperm count.
I think it's justifiable while you are trying to get pregnant - that's a mutual thing - so he should - and when we were trying for our 1st way back when, was taking awhile so that was the suggestion... really no cumming unless when trying to conceive...
But if it isn't for the pregnant goal, then I would have answered this question differently lol...
Good luck with everything :)
I totally get your motive but this doesn't sound like you. Like I said, I get it but I know I personally probably wouldn't respond well to it. It just sounds off. Sounds a little like an ultimatum. I have never scored points of an ultimatum.
Telling him to or asking him to are two very different things. Are you telling him (=commanding) him? Or are you asking him?
Straight up telling him. Just asking won't do shit lol not to be mean to him but it's already going this way and he knows it and is okay with me telling him
Well honey its actually you who should be doing it for him tbh
I'm trying to tell him this lol
Am i allowed to say then that why is he being so silly then lol
Depand why do you want him to stop
Idky he's masturbating that much when he's got pussy available till him almost whenever he wants
May be she doesn’t give him her pussy. @jgirl99
@minuteman12 maybe, but she's kinda implying she does isn't she?
@jgirl99 I guess. If my girl denied me her pussy, I might masturbate as well, even though it’s not my preference.
@minuteman12 yea same, she's not clear about if she's not giving him any
@jgirl99 Do you give your partner your pussy always?