Is it wrong to think of your female friends sexually?

I have this old friend and we will always be friends but some times when it's been some time between my own personal sexual activity my mind wonders and I start thinking what she is like in the bed.

We have spoken about sex and our personal sex life's before, I've even told her "I would",

But I've started to do this with most of my attractive female friends. Is this wrong? It would also be interesting to get a female perspective on this
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  • Deep down we are all animals here to procreate. So very very normal.

  • You shouldn't have female friends in the first place. You friend people of the same sex, and date people the opposite sex. That's how it goes, and that's how I'll always see it.

    • What a chauvinistic attitude. I have several female friends, nothing wrong with it. They can provide emotional support, give dating and relationship advise; plus, would make a great wingman. Finally, a female friend may have another female friend that may be great to date.

    • @JamesC_FL You're 62 years old. You're probably friends with other senior women, so that doesn't account, because nobody's hormones go wild over a bunch of raisins.

  • I have sexual feelings for a female friend and before I started dating my girlfriend I had sexual feelings about her since she was a friend before I asked her out

  • No I think it's pretty common among men. Or maybe I should say it is for me. I pass lady's out and about all the time and have to wonder what they are like in bed. Although less frequently as I have gotten older. But what it truly comes down to is my female freinds are just that female and their just freinds. And just because my mind wonders sometimes I really dont want to sleep with them nor do they need to know my mind wanders every once in a while.

  • It is wrong to not

  • Yes, it is

  • Every male on Earth does this, which is one of the 4230982 reasons why men and women can't be friends

  • Thinking, no. If you go to that next level, it could ruin a lot of friendships.

  • Not wrong

  • It seems rather odd to do so.

  • It's not wrong, it's natural human behavior.

  • I think it's fine to think and look, but the moment you act upon it, then you had better have damn good reasoning to do so, otherwise you are just as sleazy as most fuck boys out there

  • It's completely normal. Unless you're a homo. Then you'd think that way about all your guy friends.

  • Not at all

  • It’s wrong boi? It also wrong if u think and mastarbate

  • No ofc not. What can go wrong if you tell her...

  • No not at all

  • That's normal. Your private thoughts are your private thoughts. The manner in which you treat your friend defines your relationship. I believe men and women both do this

  • Nope... it’s actually a very fun game to play but if it’s not a problem cuz women should be respected

  • Both of agree with helthy, honestly, safe, security, privacy policy for free sexual relationship. That's ways No comes any problems from both sides.
    This way I agreed for free sexual relationship.

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