Is it wrong to want a experienced partner if you are a virgin?

I am a virgin so I want my partner to be experienced in sex so that she could teach a few things to me.
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  • not at all, I want an experienced partner too and I am a virgin it's the fact that you have never done it before and it is somewhat reassuring/comforting knowing that you are having sex with someone who knows what they are doing or at least it is like that for me.

  • No. You are completely normal. If you love her, you can have relationship and marry to her. Everything is your preference. Do not care the others.

    • Well I haven't found her yet but I want someone experienced.

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  • No, it's not wrong (well, except grammatically). Not even unreasonable, really. Just remember that what you don't know, you can learn, and the same is true of your partner. Your first time having sex is exciting, yes, but it's also nerve-wracking and confusing and awkward, and I say that as someone whose first partner *was* experienced.

    Our society (pretty much every society, actually) puts huge emphasis on one's "first time", but while saving sex for a particularly important person is one thing, the actual act itself is only tremendously important if it's also the LAST time you have sex. I'd suggest not turning away a potential partner who WAS a virgin (not for that reason, at least), since they won't be afterwards.

  • Your choice, if she is okay with it and your okay, so be it. It isn't right or wrong.

  • I was initiated into sex as a teen by a young woman who was enormously helpful in keeping me focussed on taking that big step smoothly, WITHOUT getting into the sort of life-wrecking trouble that a horny, know-nothing young boy can easily get himself caught up in.

  • No I don't think it's wrong at all. I was quite old when I lost mine, it was only a few years ago and I lost it while visiting a swingers club, although I never told the girl I did it with that I was one

  • No, reasonable. We all have a preference

  • No it's not wrong. It sounds normal

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  • I'm not bothered

  • Good Idea

  • That would be embarrassing to you. Just do it with someone virgin too so the experience would be more good and better.

  • no it isn't

  • I used to have sex with my female friend to get experience from her

  • Yeah the girls the I did it with was 2-5 years older than me and experienced than me. It’s probably because they know how to make you feel really good when doing you or at least your intuition tells you that. My intuition when I see someone older than me but 2-10 years I know they have experience and can fuck me good or have a head game.

  • Not wrong, so at least it won’t be awkward for both of you