Is just a blowjob enough?

I started dating this new guy and we've seen each other 3 times already, but no sex because I'm not ready. I really want to do him a blowjob tonight, do you think he will be happy with just that? Will he get too horny wanting more?
Or maybe I should wait with that too until I'm ready for a full thing?
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  • Be honest with him.
    If you're not ready for more you don't have to force yourself, if you want to do something then talk to him about it first.
    If he wants more, he will have to wait until you're ready.
    Take your time, there is nothing to worry about

  • I'm sure he will appreciate the BJ and hopefully will not pressure you for more than that until you are ready.

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  • yeah tbh sometimes a BJ is good to have, but if he wants more and you aren't ready... then suggest him going down on you or doing a 69 at least that way you are both engaging in oral, and you can still maintain the need to hold off for a bit for full on sex

  • It would be safer to wait until you are ready for a full thing, because giving him a blowjob could make him want more, and it's also fairly hypocritical to have only blowjobs.

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  • Blowjobs are great! He will love that. Blow him till he cums, then all he'll want is a sandwich and a nap. He'll fall asleep in your arms totally happy, satisfied and in love!

  • If you are ready for that, I think he will be happy with the compromise.

  • If it's a blowjob where you take him to orgasm I think he'll be very happy and not push you to have intercourse. At least I would hope so. But be sure you want to do it and to be open to his wanting to return the pleasure.

  • In my opinion, a good routine of mutual oral (she comes first, then him or 69) can be satisfying indefinitely. But it can't be casual. Gotta do it like a therapist. 69 is lot more urgent and is kind of a bridge between oral and sex.

  • Blowjobs are fun. I mean oral sex is a great start to getting into sexuality. Any kind of intimacy is most fun when both partners are comfortable and having fun. I mean I was happy with blowjobs for 2 years. Then we moved from there. Then again, I didn't lose my virginity until I was 30. So all cases may vary.

  • Let us know how it turned out...

  • Wait. It will be enough for a bit but then you will be pressured to do more making you uncomfortable and ultimately making you uninterested

  • Blowjobs are nice, if it's a great blowjob. Don't plan on holding him over with that for very long though.

  • Yes and no. He’ll love it, but he’ll likely want more... and to a degree you likely will, too. Just be up front and tell him you want to do this but only this and why. Should be fine...

  • More often than not, *I think* Men are perfectly pleased with a blowjob. It's EXTREMELY sweet and sincere. He will appreciate it!

  • Upto you

  • I think you should agree what you want and dont want and start blowjob.

  • If I’m being honest, I’m not one for just blow jobs. I would want more for sure but that’s just me and I already have a very high sex drive. Lol.

  • Tell him your boundaries with this and I'm sure he'll understand. He might ask if he can do something to you. You'll maybe need to decide what before you go into this. Eg. My last time in a situation like this the woman wanted me to play with he with my fingers

  • He’ll love it, just make him cum and he’ll be super happy!

  • I would be happy

  • If it were me, I'd be very ok with just a blowjob.

  • You just have to tell him that's all you are willing to do right now that's all. He'll only be upset if he thinks more might happen, because you haven't said otherwise. And don't wait until the time and he's all hot and bothered, tell him before you do it lol.

    • As far as "will it be enough?", it depends on the guy. Only he can tell you, but most guys won't have a problem, if they know going in.

  • I would be happy with that for sure. Or a nice slow sensual handjob with a nice massage oil if that’s good too? You can always wait and whats good for you! If he likes you he should be patient and def respect that.

  • Often times when I masturbate I envision and imagine getting a blowjob vs vaginal sex

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