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  • Not as long as you are waiting to have sex with him.
    I have known a couple of younger woman that made their boyfriend wait while they screwed anyone else that asked them.

  • If she is a slut, yes. If she's a virgin no.

    • How so?

    • @Subarugirl because if she likes a man why would she hold out on him but not some random guy? She only does this to play mind games on the man to trick him to think she's something that she's not. Or she's leading him on and doesn't really like him. Thats selfish. If she's a virgin then why would it be selfish? Its simply a personal preference.

    • No one is obligated to have sex with anyone, for any reason. Just as you are not obligated to be in a romantic relationship with someone who doesn't meet your needs. Neither is selfish.

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  • very

  • I suppose it depends on the reason she makes him wait

  • A guy can wait if he cares about you, but women are just as horny as men.

  • Not at all luv, make him wait it's fun

  • Not selfish it's her body so if she's not ready that's completely fine

    • Yeah, beauty cost. to look good it’s going to cost for her be attractive and be fit, but what if the guy is paying $3000 for 4 months on dates and he’s still not getting anything because she is traumatized by her ex boyfriend. She’s traumatized, but she doesn’t go to therapy’s or do any self care. She doesn’t do anything to address her problems on why she can’t move forward with the relationship. And he’s just having to deal with her depression that she doesn’t do anything about.

    • Women really love when they had a bad relation. They gave all to some bastards and after they gonna meet a nice man. He gonna suffer because of your lack of trust. You understand that you must fix this problem. yourself not him. Than wonder why nice men going away?

  • Depends, how when and why you do it? How often you do it, and fir what reasons.

    • For*

    • That can be a reason for cheating and or heart break if a guy likes you as much I liked my ex.

  • No! Its not selfish.

  • Depends on how long. If you overdo it then yes

  • No its fine take your time

  • Absolutely not. I made my boyfriend wait for 3 months before we had sex because I wanted to make sure he was with me for more than just sex. I don't think that's selfish.
    Also, He's gotten sex very regularly since we started.

  • Nope. it’s their choice lol.

  • Nope.

  • It depends. Why are you making him wait? How long are you making him wait?

  • If you're not married no. And even if you're married it depends on the situation.