Everyone has watched movies where the romantic characters “make love”. It’s sweet and romantic. Candles and kisses and it’s gentle. I’ve personally never experienced that. Sex has always been more like porn. No love or sweetness. Just wham bam thank you ma’am. Or quickies. But does that “making love” sex really exist? The romantic sex.
I love this question
Nowadays when you talk to a girl and you ask how do you like to have sex
And nine out of 10 of them will say rough.
And 9 out of 10 times I just smile and shake my head okay
I'm a little bit different than most guys first of all I'm going to have sex because I want to please the person I'm with
Second of all because I want to become one with that person because I want them to understand how beautiful it is to be one with yourself one with others and one with this universe.
So I'm going to take my time the way I touch the way I kiss the way I move each part of my body doing five things at one time focused on looking into your eyes reading the color of your cheeks the way you move the way you moan because by looking into your eyes you're talking to me you're telling me everything you want in that moment without saying one word even though I'm going to control what you're saying to me.
Because I want to take you some place that you probably have never been before
Also 9 out of 10 girls they like it rough
10 minutes into it will say harder rougher. I will just smile and shake my head okay but I will keep doing the same thing slow motion. And with an offbeat slow motion rhythm. Feeling their energy as my energy goes slow and deep inside I can watch the color of their cheeks turn red their eyes open wider and turn white I can feel the difference of the heartbeat the way they breathe and they will want it right now they will even get upset
And that's what I will slow down even more because when I got them right there like that it's perfect I can tell exactly when they want that hard fast rough passionate moment
I will purposely go slower until I know I have them right where I want them and then I will start to speed up start to get rougher in one split second and they will grab a hold of me and they will say no no stop go slow keep going slow because they have never ever become one with somebody before and I mean they will grab a hold of you wrap their legs around you their arms around you and hold you so tight do not move LOL because they want you to make love to them they have never felt it before
I feel bad for younger girls today because all they're going to get is the wam bam thank you ma'am the hard deep pounding which there's nothing wrong with that but there's a time and a place for it first orgasm has to be so slow motion slow and deep to where you're just floating out of space swirling around each other you are one with each other that orgasm is so intense so out of control and then you have to have timing and a few time it just right now that's when you start to speed things up not too hard not too fast but each level there's a different rhythm a different beat a different vibration and their eyes will tell you everything they want and depending on the first orgasm you're either going to hold back a little bit or you're just going to start pounding and giving it to them but timing has to be just right cuz you want to not only take them there again you want to take them there again twice and Non-Stop
Sorry LOL to answer your question yes it does it is one of the best parts about having sex making love is I have to have that I have to be that person I don't care if it's a role play or me it's myself but that's what the person's going to get that I'm with and it's going to be different each and every time but to that level that depth
Dang, but I want to experience what you are selling here in your answer. Just reading your response had my heart beating faster.
Lol not selling it.. it's just me I honestly believe that if you can get totally into making love the most passionate most sensual the most beautiful feeling becoming one with somebody is the most beautiful feeling on this planet so many people when they feel that moment you know like 5 minutes before you're going to have an orgasm there's a moment of clarity between the both of you you can read each other's minds you can feel each other's heartbeat you are each other's heartbeat everything comes crystal clear and for people that haven't felt that before they mistake it for love because they're in a wow moment going oh my God you're f****** me so good it means you love me LOL and it's not love it's becoming one with another human being and it is beautiful I mean everything is married together in that moment as one and I believe That were supposed to take that moment and expand on it and I think A thousand years ago or whenever somebody said sex is bad society took it a whole different direction I mean I make love to please because the more turned on I can get her the more turned on I'm going to get and it's a very end we're both going to have the most beautiful out-of-body experience ever but I think becoming one with each other there's a deeper meaning to it all it is unconditional love which we should all have that anyway And each person's different so each session of making love is going to be different it's going to be just as intense but it's going to be different or can be hotter and be lots of things LOL Like she says movie BS I wouldn't ever do it like in the movies because I don't think they do it very good
I think really it depends on the person, everyone interpretates sex differently. I do believe though movies call it making love so they don't have to use explicit language. For me, it depends on who I'm with. If I'm with a girl who likes me to talk dirty, I might use sexual words. Honestly I've never heard anybody myself call it making love. I've heard people use the expression "doing it" or "humping" like they say in movies.
Sometimes people make sex look like it's a weird thing. In one of the novels I've written in my book series I wrote a sex scene and at first I felt kind of hesitant about keeping it in there but then someone reminded me sex is a natural thing and it's something that everyone does so I figured since it's so natural, it won't hurt for my book characters to engage in it. The two book characters end up becoming boyfriend girlfriend anyway, so it's not like it was a meaningless sex scene. But yeah, even when I write about sex in my books, I never use the expression making love, to me it sounds kind of corny, and not well described.
I do like a good sexy movies if the movie has a decent plot and decent characters and the movie is not just all about sex and is more about the storyline, rather than the sex. Some of those sex scenes in movies, wow! H-o-t!
Oh it’s real. I guess you just haven’t been having sex with people you connect to on an emotional level outside of the bedroom - guys (or girls) who are only with you for sex. That’s not to say that rougher sex can’t also be romantic at the same time and vice versa. If you want to truly “make love” to someone, build an emotional connection first.
I actually don’t go hooking up with anyone. I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. We’re planning on getting married in about a year. We love each other very much. But he just likes a quickie from behind or a bj.(sorry if it’s TMI) We never did anything beyond that. But even my ex of 15 years just liked quick sex. Never had romance or intimacy or affection.. ever in my life. Almost thought it wasn’t real.
I believe it's real.
A man who genuinely loves you will be eager to give you a great experience because he cares. Tbh just stop looking for casual sex and start looking for a serious loving relationship.. then good romantic sex will follow.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!that's a very good post and observation... a lot of the time it's like i want this... never really that beautiful tender love... guys on here are full of shit they probably don't give their women tender love either... that's a very good post... your right it's never really tender and beautiful like that... i'd love to have candles and wear sexy lingerie
If it does, I've never experienced it... But I would really like to find someone to try it out with.
Would be my pleasure 😜 x
Of course it's real.
The kind of sex you have depends on the person you're with and the relationship you have with them.
Yes it most certainly does exist and your story would make me think you are making some very wrong decisions when it comes to men.
Yes... 100% real.
It depends on how you mean by Romantic? The closest I call to making love is when we take a lot of time, with me slowly rubbing and kissing her all over, and ending in laying face to face in the dark or soft light from a rainy day. She's squatted over me, I'm gently brushing her hair, kissing her, or lightly cupping her soft breasts and telling her how much I like being around her. We both take turns thrusting and it lasts two hours in total.
It exists. And it’s amazing.
Yeah the make love kind of sex is the best kind, the rough stuff is fun but you don’t get that woo that was incredible feeling at the end like the more sensual gentle sex gives you. To each their own though.
I suppose… for the ones who actually don’t give in to seduction and actually have sec with someone they line and adore
When someone, usually a woman, refers to "making love", they are trying to convey that their sex is beautiful and full of emotion. This irritates me. All consensual sex is beautiful and most of it is emotional. This includes slow sensual face to face missionary and fast Hard pounding doggystyle. People stuck on this "make love" thing are generally ashamed of having sex and try to make it sound like they're doing something special that makes it not shameful. It's BS. Don't be ashamed, adults have sex, it's okay. As long as it's consetual between 2 or more people, doesn't matter if it's for a deep emotional connection or a quick release between strangers. You define your sex life and other people outside don't get a vote.
It's real but very rare
There's a big difference and making love is the top. If I had a choice between fulfilling some kind of ultimate sexual fantasy or having vanilla sex with someone and were... In love, I'd take that. It's better in every way.
I tend to have more intimate sex than wham bam thank you ma'am kind of sex. It's more about the connection. I like to take my time and most often there's massage involved. Nothing like a slow massage to make her feel loved and relaxed.
Lol I often think that... cause real life is different than reel life
It exists and it's the very best sex.
It exists
I'm sorry you've missed it. Yes, making love does exist... with the right person. FYI, wham-bam sex also happens with that same person. It's what makes relationships interesting.
Yes it is real. I do it. But I like my Wham Bam too. Overall girls seem to like long loving sex but short sharp 5 minutes or less is a lot better for men.
Romantic sex is absolutely real
I have romantic sex a lot.
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