Is masturbating better then being In a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I mean it’s one sided, that’s never good.
But it seems to be a good option and it’s not hurting anyone! Is there a healthy platform community with type of stuff?

[NamerOfStars]

Why is it not good just because it's one-sided? There's only one side to BE involved. "One-sidedness" is only bad if someone or something is being neglected; that's not the case here.

People think of "being in a relationship" as just another status condition; it's not. It's more like a living thing that takes effort and energy to maintain. If you can't give it the attention it deserves (for whatever reason), it's often better to just hold off for the time being and just be by yourself for a while.

[CuriousMufuxka]

I must agree! Yes, but with that typed I'm 43 and every time I miss some nasty, ridiculously awesome foreplay and get a little depressed.. I then remember all the arguments, all the dragging me to shit I didn't want to be a part of, and the goddamn complaining from both of us. Now I have an epic spank bank that is sexy and weird and at times makes me uncomfortable after I spill my seed. I give it one hand up and down my cock and sometimes the other lightly finger my asshole.

[TheMVPofGaG]

I mean, no.
But you're completely right - it doesn't hurt anybody lmao + it's a good way to explore what you like before you enter a relationship in the future
And as per a community, I don't partake in that kind of stuff but I do remember Omegle being quite the place for that when I would go on there for fun in my young days and was *scarred*

[Sour-rose]

Eeeehhhh...

I've heard that if you don't masturabate, then you should have sex. And vice versa... but masturbation could get dull if you just jack or flick it every month. But a relationship is probably better, because you are with somone you love.

[laurieluvsit]

No, none of those sucking devices matches the tongue and sucking of another girl, and certain guys, so my vote is NO, although frequent masturbation as well most certainly does have it's place :)

[SnakeBoop]

meh if you feel it is.
personally, its the shit lesser version to me.

[ushagomez]

Solo pleasure is a course absolutely great. However with a partner it is about giving them pleasure and then giving you pleasure. That makes it different forgiving someone you like such a pleasure isn’t it self very rewarding. So I guess by solo and with a partner or brilliant just with a slightly different focus.
Enjoy which ever you prefer.

[summiter]

As you know masturbation is normal and healthy. For some it is a good option. For me I have a happy marriage and sex life but we both still masturbate. All younger guys masturbate frequently but most will never admit it!!!

[Gigi2019]

The upside is that you won't lose money, deal with psychological gymnastics (with an out-of-shape mind), deal with other people's unwanted issues, get pregnant, or catch any serious STDs.

[StephanieGirl75]

Masturbation is so heavenly.

[sissyalexa]

It's important to have a strong sexual relationship with your partner.

But really I think self love comes first, you're a sexual being weather you are with someone or not, so while sex with a partner can be incredible, sex play on your own can go to whatever limits you choose (and with regards to the general public and you know decency)

Long and short, yeah masterbating CAN be better than a relationship, it isn't by default though and really there not mutually exclusive 😊

[Bricealan]

It is a good option for me. "DirtyRoulette" is one place, but the men are many and not many women. Many men there willing to masturbate with a woman. Get a webCam and logon and you will find many erect penises ready to masturbate with you.

[AvaOneLasTime]

Hell, No!

[AviatorTom]

I wouldn't call masturbation better, but it sure us a lot less complicated than a relationship. Your body parts are rarely tired or have a headache.

[UniquelyBasic]

My hand accepts me for who I am.

[TheMajesticKing777]

As long as you don't let it effect your everyday life then I guess there's really nothing wrong with it, what you do in your personal time when you are alone, is your business

[Drumlin2001]

No. But it keeps the hankering in check when not getting laid

[FunkyMonkee]

No, it's better being in a relationship, first and THEN spanking off when the relationship goes bad on you.

[Jamie05rhs]

"Is there a healthy platform community with type of stuff?". I didn't understand your question.

[sp33d]

You do what you gotta do to maintain sanity.

[Wise4myage]

No, its not even close. But it is fun, lol.

[TheFlak38]

much better

[jahaims]

Nope

[kellytheman]

Nah masturbating is nice giving you self love and pleasure but its being with someone who loves you and you love feel way better and pleasure. There is more of human emotions and connecting with someone else mentally and physically.