Is my boyfriend gay?

My boyfriend never touches my vagina without clothes on and he has never given me oral sex, also never attempted to look at my vulva. When we have sex, he also rarely touches my boobs.

He has a sissy boy fetish and he sometimes says he feels like a woman. Is he gay? But whenever I bring this idea up, he makes this disgusted face and tells me to stop talking about gay sex.

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When we have sex, he doesn't look interested in my body. I remember having sex with clothes on except my panties. And one time I tried to force his hand down there but he refused to do it.
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He's had many sexual intercourses with women before. He said he used viagra to improve his performance and stuff. When we had sex last time he was bragging about how long he lasted. I felt like he expected me to compliment him but I didn't say anything. Our sex life isn't bad but he ignores my body.
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Superb Opinion

  • he is a gay and stupid..
    if i were him i gave u oral whatever u want... ur pleasure is more important than me cuz u take more time than me... i can turn on and cum easily for once..
    but i can enjoy ur orgasms&cum maybe for 3 times before i cum ❤️😋💦😘

    • He is more of a narcissist I guess, now that I fully think about it.

    • wht do you mean? thanks for the mho

Most Helpful Guy

  • Break up. Find a guy that goes crazy on you.

    • I just asked him why he never touches me and he's like "what does that mean? I can't understand" as if i'm making it up

Most Helpful Girl

  • you are sexually incompatible at best, sit down with him and talk about these ailments and try to find out why.

    • He really turns me on and I know that I turn him on but i dont understand why he doesn't wanna touch my vulva. Maybe he's disgusted by the feeling of it. Still weird. I dont find his penis beautiful but i give him oral sex because I want him to feel pleasure. Maybe he's just selfish.

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  • have you asked him if he is?

    • Yea he says he's 100% straight

    • so... case closed

    • Then why won't he touch me down there? How can a guy keep his hands off his girlfriend while having sex? I dont get it

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  • that's a red flag

    • I'm probably dating a narcissist. I confronted him and he denied it and blamed me for creating drama.

    • of course he would deny it, he is not gonna come out and say yes I'm gay, just give it some time.

    • He isn't gay though. He's had many sexual intercourses with women before. He said he used viagra to improve his performance and stuff. When we had sex last time he was bragging about how long he lasted. I felt like he expected me to compliment him but I didn't say anything. He is more of a narcissist, that's probably why he can't see I have my own needs. He focuses on himself during sex. One time he said he would be down if I wanted a threesome with another woman. He was like "you'll give me head and then she will. I'll watch you both make out." So I was like "sure, but bring another guy and make it a foursome." He was disgusted. He said he'd be okay if he's the only guy because he thinks his penis is enough. He'd want to feel like the king.

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  • Ohhhh i know this type of guys 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️
    Really feeling so bad for you ❤️

    • What type

    • The guy who dont kiss every spot in his girl.. eat her clit This stuff

    • Yea i feel like he's disgusted by my vagina because he never wants to touch me down there

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  • No but his boyfriend is

  • Yes he is

  • I believe he’s gay or wants a ladyboy for a girlfriend or maybe he wants to be a ladyboy try pegging him see if he likes it

    • He is most likely a narcissist.

  • either gay or asexual or not interested

    • He gets erected when we have sex and seems horny but never touches my body, maybe just my boobs