Is my girlfriend being serious about this or just joking around or trying to throw me off? How should I react?

[Anonymous]

My girl and I have jokingly talked about trying anal a few times after a few drinks and I've made no secret that I'd like to try it with her but that's as far as we've gone.

I brought the subject up again recently and she said she'd agree to it, but only if she got to do it to me first. By which she means she'll get a strap on and have me bend over or tie me down if I'd prefer and she can do whatever she wants. After that I can have her ass and if she likes it I can keep doing it.

This threw me so I said I'd need some time to think about it and she's asked me again for my answer. Is she just trying to put me off the idea, or is this something couples do, or is she just messing around with me?

Sorry for posting anon, but I'm a bit embarrassed to be asking this if truth be told.

[Reece12345]

I think she's trying to make you understand her point of view. Her situation. Maybe how you feel about having it done to you is the same way she feels about her being on the receiving end.

Why do you ask if she's just trying put you off / messing around when you want to do the same thing to her?

It seems like you wouldn't want this. Maybe this is her way of letting you know how she feels. Like maybe the exact way you feel about it?

[Asker]

From my angle, it seems normal for the guy to penetrate the woman but I've never heard about it being done the other way around. I'm not repulsed by the idea, just confused. Is that something couples normally do?

[Reece12345]

I would be very surprised if it wasn't (at least going by what I see on PornHub). :)

[SnowedIn]

I think she's serious.

Here's the thing: pegging not only feels awesome for the guy (the feelings and orgasms are intense) but also the woman gets an intense high from pegging you.

I believe she's serious and you two should talk about it. I think you might enjoy it and subsequently she may learn to enjoy anal.

[CrAZe977]

I don't know if she's serious or not, but I did this with an friends with benefits a few times. He actually wanted me to do it to him though and asked me and he wasn't interested in doing anal with me, just me with him. It's called 'pegging' and I don't think its that common but he really enjoyed it and we did it a few more times before I stopped seeing him.

[Anonymous]

Do it before she finds another guy to do it.

[Asker]

Is this something you'd expect a lot of guys would be willing to do?

[Opinion Owner]

92%.

[Twalli]

Agree to try it. If done correctly anal stimulation feels good for both girls and boys.

[abc--123]

Sounds like she thinks if you want to fuck her ass you should take it too. I mean it is fair you can't argue with that

[panamared1]

get plenty of lube for the both of you

[Anonymous]

Sounds lke she is afraid of being physically hurt and wants you to understand what a big deal this is for her. Tell her you're willing to do that but you want to start out with her finger instead of a dildo. Ask her to give you a prostate massage while she sucks your dick in 69.