Is my sex drive higher than his?

[angeldarling]

So I'm a girl but I want sex ALL THE TIME but my boyfriend doesn't. It's like I'm begging for sex and then I feel stupid when he says no. I would do it 3 times in a day when its a holiday and still want more but he doesn't.

[Sisejski]

Well, answering you question - yes, your sex drive is higher than his.

My girlfriend usually has lower drive than I do, but sometimes she becomes a sexual beast for couple of days and I get tired after doing it 3 times a day for 2 days, it's not that fun for me to do it that often, I'd even say it hurts.

You may try to masurbate, I feel like that's some solution.

[markscott]

A guy can't hardly keep up with what seems to be your sex appetite. However, you don't say how often you both do have sex. If his sex appetite is low, and yours is so high, you may be a poor fit for a relationship. Three times a day if OK for a day or two, but most guys can't keep that up. A younger guy should be able to handle two times a day most days.

[angeldarling]

My boyfriend is 21... he is younger than I am.

[markscott]

But what are you wanting out of him? How often, and for how many days straight? What you may be wanting is something most guy have trouble doing, if for no other reason than there is a lot in life that can interfere with sex every day, or twice a day every day, etc.

[angeldarling]

3 or 4 days is good enough for me.

[markscott]

He should be easily able to handle 3 of 4 times a week at around your age. And he should be able to handle 3 times a day on some holidays, though not necessarily for all holidays. For the amount you want, you shouldn't be begging. Ask him if there is something bothering him, or is you are doing something that makes him not want to do it that often. If he just plain doesn't have a strong enough sexual appetite to keep up with your needs, then try some self pleasuring to fill in. If your and his frequency is just too disparate, you might try counseling. In the end, you may need to either put up with less sex (women often want less sex after a few years) or perhaps look for a new relationship if it's very important to you. What you don't want to do, is to stay in this relationship and keep looking outside the relationship for more sex.

[angeldarling]

It has actually increased since I posted this so I'm satisfied

[markscott]

Happy for you.

[angeldarling]

Thanks😊

[Scatter_brain]

Seems like it. Maybe he's one of the few that's wants quality and not quantity? Or maybe it takes a huge toll on him? Have you asked him why?

[angeldarling]

He kinda works hard is he says he's tired

[Scatter_brain]

That could very well be the case. I mean it's hard if you have that high of a drive and he doesn't. That would be almost every guys dream and here you got one who's tired. Go figure... Perhaps talking about it and finding a middle ground may be helpful?

[angeldarling]

Its frustrating, I tell him he's the girl in this relationship because that's the way some girl are except for me

[Scatter_brain]

That's not going to make him want to have more sex though. I mean if you really love the guy, you also kinda need to compromise you know? Him too that's why I'm saying perhaps you both can find a middle ground? But if he can't give you what you want and it's really that important to you then you might need to rethink your options.

[angeldarling]

I know it just a little frustrating

[Caaarl]

I wouldn't want to have sex either if anyone was telling me I was the girl of the relarionship.

[angeldarling]

Well only girls act like that

[Kelza81]

Haha I could have written this myself 😂

[slatyb]

Evidently it is. You may have to change partners to prevent a lifetime of sexual frustration. My opinion is that partners should generally be willing at any time they are not sick or have other commitments.

[Tom42]

Well you seem to have a higher libido than most people (girls and guys) indeed. But hey, everyone is different, some wants to do it 3 times a day, others once a week. Don't worry :)

[Caaarl]

Well sounds like you're going to need to take care of those urges yourself most of the time I think that would be the best solution.

[angeldarling]

Well that's what he's there for? He needs to step up to the plate.

[Caaarl]

3 times a day is ridiculous lol.

[KingDio]

Yes it is and i know your feeling only advice i could say is stay busy or even self play

[IceSaffroN]

Yes, your sex drive is higher.

Everyone has different libidos.

It really sucks but if it's a deal breaker for you, then you need to break up with him.

I had to break up with my girlfriend of 3 years because the libido difference was just too much for me to handle.

Do I regret it? If I could go back I would try everything I could to make it work... But ultimately if it still didn't work then I would have made the same decision.

[genericname85]

3 times a day is a pretty high drive. good for you. i think he might not be able to keep up. maybe let him toy with him.

[Protonite]

It is a damn yes.

[Cellestial]

Unlucky lol

[thinkingglass]

My girlfriend is the same

[ND4SPD31]

I think we have the same sex drive & the same issue but I’m the opposite sex! Lol.

[mT2359]

5 times or more in a day and I am outta there.

[anmolsawant23]

I guess he is getting tired with everyday sex and you should masturbate in case he is not fucking you and keep yourself happy :-)

[Nandor]

That would be a little too much for me too lol

[angeldarling]

Why?

[Nandor]

I would not have time for it but as you said, if its a holiday maybe 2 times would be okay. I would like to have sex all day but 2 is okay

[angeldarling]

Lol all day

[Nandor]

I actually wouldn't mind it lol

[anoopb]

Wow superb, it's quite a natural thing, donut and enjoy it with your boyfriend, get intimate with him and have a fun

[Lumberman53]

Yours is higher

[Danael31]

Haha complicated, go masturbate, buy a sextoy, this kind of stuff !

[mikey112]

could be.. but thats normal..

[Caaarl]

Three times a day? Normal? You must have a really full sex life.

[angeldarling]

Not really

[mikey112]

Yup I do..

[mikey112]

U told on holidays u do 3 times.. that’s fine.. I would that on weekends too..

[kostas25]

Find another boyfriend who wants sex

[weaverman]

Your sex drive is higher I've the same prob but if he loves u its ok

[thanes]

Better you buy a sex toy or change your boyfriend.

[angeldarling]

Maybe I should

[thanes]

Next time get naked first and call him for sex.. when see you naked definitly he will horny and want sex..

[angeldarling]

Tried it all