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Is my son gay? His 15 never had a girlfriend and when I ask him about sex he gets all mad and says it's not my business?

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  • Most guys i know at the age of 15 did not really get in relationships. They didn’t want one. i was dating a guy and he ended me because he just didn’t want a relationship. i have a cousin who i know is not gay since i’ve personally met his girlfriend but whenever his mom would ask him personal questions he would get mad and she does not even know he has a girlfriend. It could be that or it could be that he just does not want you in his business, most 15 year old boys are like that. that’s usually stuff they speak to the dad about from what i’ve seen

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  • ... umm.. da fuck?
    Leave him alone.
    What kid wants they momma in they sex life.
    Maybe he just shy. So what if is gay. Let him be happy

Most Helpful Guys

  • That doesn't mean that he's gay. I overheard my Mum saying she thought I was when I was 15 because I never had a girlfriend then, but even if I did I wouldn't have told her. Some kids just feel a little embarrassed about talking about dating with their parents.

  • Can't tell. He's young for dating. Don't push him, it will just cause stress and make him stop talking to you. If he's gay then he's gay and you can accept it or push him away. Stop asking questions and learn to listen without judging. Give advice if asked.

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  • It's truly not your business. And he's only fifteen. What the fuck is wrong with you? I guess you've been around the block, so you think everyone has to be like that. Well, newsflash: We're not all like that

    • By 15 i already had 2 babies

    • Yeah, not the best example, if you ask me. I'm sorry that was your situation, but you shouldn't wish that lifestyle on your son

    • Why not it's fun.

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  • He is 15, do you seriously expect him to openly talk to his mother about sex?

    • His brothers and sisters did..

    • Well that’s even weirder.

    • How? I am a open person with my kids and no topic is off the table..

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  • Your son's sex life is not your business unless he is in danger of contracting STDs.
    Better to ask him

    • Yes it is..

    • If you say so. But you aren't going to know from here about your son's sexuaity. There're lots of reason why a teenage guy doesn't have a girlfriend. And no one except some would want to discuss sex life with their parents.

    • He should i could help him get one

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  • its not gay, its embarrassing for a mother to ask her son why he is still a virgin, hence his "not your business" response, he probably just hasn't gotten lucky yet

  • You need to sit him down Dont judge him Your need to be calm and give the best empathy you have ever had but don't dive in

  • Make it your business. He is your child. The key question is how are you going to react if he is honest with you?

  • I don't know but it sure means he seems to have it tough, maybe he's being bullied at school or pressured by one of his parents into not being gay

  • He's a teenage boy, of course he doesn't want his own mother poking around in his sex life.

  • Is he jerking off to porn?
    He's REALLY young for girls and dating you know. Having a crush, and flirting is normal, but actual dating is a ways off.
    The bigger question is, why are you pushing him? Where is DAD?

  • that just means he wants to keep his sex life private and you embarassed him. not any indicator of sexual orientation.

  • It's not your business

  • No, he's a nerd.

  • No he is not gay. If you care about him then show him how good a girl can be for him. Some mom's don't let their sons get near another woman for fear they will be swayed

  • Probably not gay. But you need to show him how to pick up a girl just in case. Gay is ok though. My 6 year old boy is gay. Happy as hell. Why give a fuck? I never involved my parents in where i dumped my loads.

  • He may or may not be gay, but not wanting to discuss his sex life (or lack thereof) isn't an indicator as such, most teenagr boys probably aren't interested in discussing it with their mother.

  • Seriously? That's what's your basing this on? He probably just feels awkward talking about sex with his mother.

    • Why? Sex is natural and his brothers and sisters have no issue talking to me about sex

    • Well, maybe he just feel differently about it, but don't base his being gay on such weak proof.

  • Yes your son is gay. If you haven't lost your virginity by 12 you're pretty much gay

    • That's the dumbest load of shit I've ever heard.

    • @lanadelrey25 I think the op is being sarcastic

    • @Twalli I hope

  • That doesn't make him gay. If you catch him watching gay porn or acting effeminate then yes.

  • He is only 15. Maybe he isn't even thinking about that right noe with school and such.

  • Well it really isn't your business to begin with and maybe he doesn't want a boyfriend, doesn't mean he gay

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