Is Onlyfans a deal breaker in a serious relationship?

Me n my fiancé have it planned to buy a house soon, but we were waiting for the price of house & cars to drop before we considered buying. Yesterday she told me she can’t wait any longer and she’s gonna make the extra money by starting an only fans account. I told her “do whatever you want”. Now she’s in the process of starting an onlyfans account.

I didn’t think much of it at first because me and my ex girlfriend used make dirty sex tapes and sell them online. We had such a great sex life that enjoyed sharing our excitement with others. I still watch our videos up to now.

With my current fiancé I’m having second thoughts…. because we have problems with our sexual life. She never wants to have sex. We haven’t had sex in 2 months. Her excuse is that I’m not around enough. Which doesn’t make sense because when we first started dating we barely saw each other, I was living with my parents, and she always wanted it all the time.

This morning her phone pocket dialled me and I heard a disturbing conversation she had with her friend. She was telling her friend about how my dick game is really bad. Even worse, she was complaining about her ex never wanting to have sex with her.

From what I’ve told you is this a dealbreaker?
Is Onlyfans a deal breaker in a serious relationship?
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  • I don’t think it’s a deal breaker per se, but y’all definitely have a lot of issues to work through, and I would probably have her postpone the OnlyFans until you both figure out the root of your problems. My fiancé and I have also had some problems with our sex life, and it’s taken a lot of tears, honest conversations, and work to improve it. But it has improved, and we’re still getting better. I think it could be difficult to workout if you have a third party (onlyfans) in the mix. Maybe have a conversation with her about your concerns first and ask if she’d be willing to wait a few months to get started. Hope this helps.

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  • Your issues started far before her making OF account, but you seem to be making OF the scapegoat for now. Sounds like you need to breakup. Neither of you are getting needs met, and you two don’t seem sexually compatible.

    • Also, she talked to you about the OF account and you went “do whatever” and “didn’t think much of it” and now you’re mad? She probably feels a bit brushed off with the “do whatever” response, too. It sounds like not a very invested response to your relationship.

Most Helpful Guys

  • That's a definite deal-breaker, especially in your situation. You need to sit her down and have an honest talk about your sex life and how to improve things before she starts anything like that.

  • I wouldn't be in a serious relationship with a woman with onlyfans, I would just pretend to be in a serious relationship with her and take her money.

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  • Absolutely, all porn production and consumption is an instant no.

  • Yeah. Never

  • First you allowed her to make an only fans, she goes ahead and does it, and then she's talking crap about your private parts and comparing you to her ex? Repeat after me, BREAK... UP.

  • It is to me

  • It is if she insists on continuing to do it while she's with me. I'd want her all to myself, and I'd need her to want me all to herself too, and only me.

  • This is a huge dealbreaker man she talks shit behind your back? Fuck her

  • I would be uncomfortable with the idea.

  • not really

  • Women who choose to do that are basically whores. No its a deal breaker. Best i would do with an only fans thot is a one night stand.