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Is or was having interracial sex a bucket list item for you?

Have you done it? Is it someting you want to experience, don't care if you do or not or have no interest?

I grew up and lived in a place that did not any people from different races. It wasn't until many years later that I experienced different races and cultures. I thought it would be very interesting to have a relationship and sex with a person of a different race but it wasn't until I was married and in my 50's before i lived in an area where the possibility even existed. Put it on my bucket list but I don't think it will be an item that will ever get checked off.
Yes it was on my list. I have done it and would do it again because I crave it.
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Yes it was on my list. I have done it and I would again with the right person.
Vote B
Yes it was on my list. I have not done it but I want to do it.
Vote C
No it was not on my list. I have done it and would do it again because I crave it.
Vote D
No it was not on my list. I have done it and would do it again with the right person.
Vote E
No it is not on my list. I have not done it but I want to do it.
Vote F
No it is not on my list. I have not done it and have no desire or interest in doing it.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I am Caucasian and I have had sex with Asian and Hisanic women, but it was never a bucket list item for me I didn't have sex with my girlfriend because she is Chinese; we had sex because we knew we were falling in love with each other.

    • But you knew she was Chinese right, and you were physically attracted to her Chinese self correct?

    • There's no shame in being attracted to Chinese women whether you love her or not.

    • @HappyHarry1990 I didn't say anything about shame. All I said was that I met her and kept seeing her because she is a nice lady; I didn't go in search of a Chinese woman to fulfill some bucket list requirement.

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  • Yes I have done it, but never thought anything of it. I had sex with the person because I liked them, the race was irrelevant.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I have had interracial sex with Caucasian men and do have my own personal preferences.

    • People who use terms like "Race fetish" are usually either jealous or racist of the people who get attention.

    • Yeah I agree. It isn't a fetish to be attracted to other races, it doesn't even fit the definition. When people use derogatory terms like "Yellow fever, fetishizm" etc. it's definitely done out of jealousy. It's a preference.

  • If its on your bucket list then its likely a sexual fetish. And thats a turn off

    • Experiencing something different does not make it a fetish. If you crave it all the time then yes it would be and then I agree with you. I will never experience it so I can't possibly know and it does not bother me. I have heard other people talk and wanted to know what people thought and if it was common or not.

    • @HappyHarry1990 finding people of another race atrractive is normal. Wanting to have sex with them because of their race is not. And thats where fetishizing comes in. If im going to sex someone who’s Asian, its not because their Asian. I’d actually dating the person for many many months and then once in love with them, i’d have sex because i love them, not because theyre Asian and i want to “try” Asian dick

    • @HappyHarry1990 nah i know what sexual objectification and racial preference are. Having sex with someone just because you want to see if sex with a specific race is different is not normal. So i said what i said WHICH IS RACIAL FETISHISM and you can get off my opinion post now

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I don't have a bucket list, but if I did, sex of any kind would probably be on it.

  • Be interesting. African, Asian, and though it might not be interracial but Irish, Sweden, Russian sounds fun.

  • Not a bucket list. I grew up in a predominantly black area and was one of the few white girls in my school. All my early sexual experiences were with black guys. I didn’t have same race sex until I was 21.

  • No, never thought of it that way. I've done it but only because I was attracted to and cared about the girl. It's not like it's a fetish or anything.

    • It technically isn't a fetish to be sexually attracted to women of other races even if you don't care about her. It's no different than having sex with a woman of your own race. Sexual attraction is natural. The term fetish means the sexual fixation of an object or body part that isn't typically seen as sexual. Since women of other races are already naturally, sexually attractive to all males they don't fit the definition of a fetish. It's usually only jealous or racist people who will shame others for dating interracially by calling it a "Fetish." They want you to stick to your own kind because it bothers them.

  • It isn't on my list but I see nothing wrong with being attracted to other races.
    Everyone should be free to have sex with whatever race they want without judgement.

    • I totally agree

  • I have done it and now I crave women of other races.
    I don't even date white women anymore.

  • Not really on my list, but if it happens it happens.

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