Is oral sex cheating?

Guys would you be ok with your gf/wife giving another guy a blowjob? Why or why not?

Girls would you be ok with your bf/husband licking another woman? Why or why not?
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  • Sex is not only P in V thing; it is much more than that. Anything personal between a man and women that satisfy their sexual desire is sex, be it P in V or not. It can be just a smile and shads of shyness on face. Oral is – if not sex – basic starting point of satisfying se – wonderful foreplay – for both. It is for pleasing loved one. In almost every monogamous relationship like in our culture – Hindu Marriage - I have ever seen, it is not considered cheating, it is sex. If you agreed not to have sex with other people – outside marriage, then you have agreed not to have oral sex with other people. Same argument applies for natural P in V sex and anal sex, and also for any fiddling about with someone's genitalia.
    You and your partner are absolutely free to break the pattern and decide that oral sex with other people is OK or not. Once you agree that something is acceptable, it's not cheating. But if you have not discussed it yet, I would assume your partner would consider anything outside marriage acts related to sex cheating. Find out what he or she think you two have agreed to, and what he or she will be super uncomfortable with you doing. You want to know for sure if getting or giving oral sex is cheating? Ask your partner. Generally put, if you have to keep things a secret under the notion that your partner finding out will get angry at you then it is cheating.
    Think other way round. Would you want your partner to be doing the same with another person besides you? How would you feel about him or her having sex? Surely, if oral is not wrong, why not sex? I mean, you are only a few inches from actually doing so, so why not. Obviously you are not loyal. Please reserve yourself for your partner, no one else and vice versa. If you cannot hold a relationship, I guess friends with benefits can come into play.
    People have different perspectives on what is considered cheating. Some consider having an ongoing emotional relationship: texting, talking, and so on with NO intimate contact to be cheating. The only thing that matters is what your partner thinks, and what agreements you have between you. Cheating for me is anything s done without your partner's knowledge and consent.

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  • It's a sexual act with another person so I think it's cheating. I wouldn't be okay with that.

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  • No I would hate it if I found out if he was cheating on me.

    • Ok so you would definitely consider oral sex as cheating?

    • Yeah obviously

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  • Sorry man. I feel for your situation but at the same time i disagree with how you handle it. I would not be ok with her even holding another mans hands unless she was falling or had to cross some random bridge.

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  • "Oral sex". What is the second word? Yeah, that is cheating.

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  • Of course it's cheating

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  • Definitely cheating

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  • I’d say so yeah

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    • Pleasure

  • No! Anything sexual (even kissing) is cheating.

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  • it might not be actual sex but it is a sexual act and so to my mind is indeed cheating unless agreed beforehand

    • Ok. Would there ever be a time you would allow your gf/wife to do that to another man?

  • Nope it's cheating

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  • It's interactive sexual relations. Unless you are Bill Clinton, of course it's cheating.

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  • I wouldn't be okay with that. It's cheating.

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  • Yesss

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  • As long as they are there in a 3 some or orgy. Then its okay

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  • Odd someone your age could be so confuzzled.

  • I would get an annulment of our marriage.
    It is a despicable form of cheating

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  • Definitely cheating

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  • Its not okay

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  • whahhaha i find oral to be even more intimate

  • I'm into ethically non-monogamy, so as long as I know I wouldn't consider it cheating.

    In a monogamous relationship is it cheating? Absolutely. Oral sex is sex.

  • It’s skirting the line. Not always cheating but it can become that way. Fun though

    • True... not always cheating. It depends on your relationship. Thanks for your input

  • Hell no!!! Any sexual act is cheating.

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  • Yes its cheating

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  • Definitely not

    • Not cheating? Or you would not be ok with it?

    • Most definitely cheating

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