Is oral sex same as having sex?

This guy and I been seeing each other for couple months we have not had sex only oral sex I’m ok with it for now but that is all we do well I mostly do for him
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  • Yes, Oral Sex is just a different form of sex.

  • It is very satisfying sexuality.

    • If you are going to blow him, you should EXPECT cunnilingus. It should come first so he is aroused to work hard.

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  • do you like giving him mostly oral sex? personally i wouldn't be that bothered by it because i do appreciate the intimacy... i guess your looking to be touched and maybe having your pussy eaten? which would be normal... oral sex is sex but it's debatable to a degree... but hence oral sex does imply it's sex... but it can be debateable

  • What do YOU want and how long are you willing to wait to get it? This doesn't sound all that good for you.

  • Hmm. You sucking and him not eating you ! ? Not a good exchange. Should tell him, "No ticky, no washe" No eating, no sucking ! The sword cuts both ways.

  • No, it's really not. Oral is pleasurable in it's own right, but no mouth feels as good as the loving warm and wet embrace of a vagina.

  • No, one is with your mouth, the other with your vagina. And well there's butt-sex, but not everyone is into that.
    What exactly are you waiting for?

    • Honestly I would like to get a room but I dont want to be the one to say so

    • Why not? "Let's get a room honey."

    • Thank you

  • Not really, oral is different from having sex. Some people don't need sex as often as others. If you two are okay with it just being oral for now, that's great.

  • Nope

  • It feels like foreplay

  • No it is not.

  • If I told my fiancée that I had oral with someone else I am sure that she would count it as sex

    Bill Clinton doesn't consider it to be sex

    Two different opinions to consider

  • I don't think so

  • No. Actual sex is penetration

  • Yes.. it’s all sex

  • I need to have both. Sometimes spice it up with anal sex and BDSM.

  • Yes, it is sex

  • No it’s not the same

    • And you need to have him pleasure you as well

    • What should I say to him?

    • Tell him to. Go down on you

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  • Oral sex isn't the same as regular sex unless you're a lesbian. Lol

  • It's a different form of sex. I actually like oral sex more.

  • It is a form of sex. But he should be going down on you as often as you go down on him.

  • It's not the same.