Is our sex life bad?

[Anonymous]

We have sex often maybe 3 x per week to more.

It’s good ish most times and only amazing after a break of no sex.

We went way and stayed in a hotel over night and had sex three times. He started the first two and they were just good they weren’t incredible. Then I started the third one and because I put in the effort it blew our minds.

Should sex be better than this?

In an average week it’s only good. It’s never amazing. Only amazing on occasion?

[NamerOfStars]

Does it satisfy you? Both of you? If so, it's good. But there are three answers to that question: "yes", "no", and "it's okay, but could be better". If you want it to to be better, than try and think what could be improved: try something new, or find what works and do more of that.

[UniquelyBasic]

If you enjoy it then its fine. If you want it to be better then talk with him about you two exploring some kinks or fantasies you have.

[SnakeBoop]

talk to your partner if you think its an issue.

[Wise4myage]

That sounds really good to me. But perhaps you need to discuss this with your man?

[Preeti161101]

I think it's good

[BLP11520]

People end up masturbating... women cut men off. The guy is like thinking fine I will go jerk it!!