Girls, is penetration + clit stimulation simultaneously pleasurable or too much for you?

[more_than_a_guy]

[Sangita93]

Most women orgasm more often or make vaginal penetration more pleasurable using 'Pairing': when a woman herself or her partner reaches down to stimulate her clitoris with his organ, or a finger or two or sex toy at the same time as her vagina is penetrated. The clitoris is the only organ on the female body that exists solely for sexual pleasure. There is a technique known as CAT – Clitoral Alignment Technique in which his organ is penetrated selecting his position over girl so that it simultaneously stimulates her clitoris with each movement – in and out. The coital alignment technique is a sex position that helps stimulate the external portion of the clitoris during P-in-V sex; the focus is less on thrusting and more on grinding. In this position, the woman should lie on her back with her legs comfortably spread, as she is in missionary position. On top of her, her man doing the penetrating should raise himself on his arms with his shoulders high and his back arched. My husband is master in it and I enjoy multiple orgasms frequently mainly because of it. It is his skills of positioning on me, and my cooperation to make it possible easily; it is ultimately giving me much more pleasure and helps him lasting for much longer time in me.

Pairing, shallowing, rocking or angling are four distinct methods or techniques women use to increase their sexual pleasure during vaginal penetration.

To “orgasm more or make vaginal penetration more pleasurable”, many women have used pairing, defined as when a woman herself or her partner reaches down to stimulate her clitoris with his organ, a finger or sex toy at the same time as her vagina is penetrated.

Shallowing is described as “penetrative touch just inside the entrance of the vagina – not on the outside, but also not deep inside – with a fingertip, sex toy, penis tip, tongue, or lips”, and is applied by many girls and guys frequently.

Rocking refers to “the base of the penis or sex toy rubbing against the clitoris constantly during penetration, by staying all the way inside the vagina rather than thrusting in and out”. It is a method of choice for guys to last longer and loved by most women.

The most common technique, used by girls and guys is angling: “rotating, raising, or lowering the pelvis / hips during penetration to adjust where inside the vagina penis rubs and what it feels like.

Experiencing sexual pleasure is important for women’s physical, social and emotional wellbeing throughout life. Sexual pleasure is linked to more happiness and less depression, stress and anxiety. Unsurprisingly women’s sexual pleasure is associated with greater relationship satisfaction, intimacy and commitment. Sexual pleasure reframes our enjoyment of sex as a fundamental human right, rather than as a medical or psychological problem to be ‘solved’. “Pleasurable” and “satisfying” sexual experiences are integral to sexual rights.

It is important to understand individual differences in achieving pleasure, empowering women to explore what works for them rather than what “should” work and to find the words to better understand and communicate it. A woman having access to a wider stimulation and penetration vocabulary may increase her satisfaction with her sexual communication with partners, which in turn may have positive implications for both relationship satisfaction and sexual satisfaction.

[dustybiker]

Can change from moment to moment.

[more_than_a_guy]

Depends on the buildup and the emotional state at the moment?

[dustybiker]

No. You can get orgasmns drom diffeeent areas. Depends which area is getting triggered the best. One or the other can cancel each other out completely. Or on the other hand get to trigger both at once, which is intense. It just depends.

[dustybiker]

*from different (sorry. Getting a migraine my right eye is acting up)

[mandyfire98]

It's pleasurable

[bubblegunnn]

Best combo

[Nikki1989]

That is what I like the most.

[Anonymous]

Too much.