If you’re around sex-negative people, bigots, and misogynists, sure.
Sex-positive people don’t flex that much (and if they do, it’s a red flag). But they will openly talk about how much or how little sex they have. No gender divide, same for men and women.
It’s about the significance you give to sex. For the people you’re talking about, it’s about what you gain through sex. They have dreams of status and power. Other people have sex because they can and they like it. Personally, I like it.
Anyone trying to flex by talking about how many people they fuck are just desperate for validation. Men and women alike.
I have had sex with many people. It's usually not difficult.
My main partner has also had sex with many people. It's slightly more difficult for him.
If you like having sex with lots of people, cool. If you don't like having sex with lots of people, cool. If you don't like having sex at all, cool. None of those are a flex.
It's all just preference.
Right it's not something "to" flex but it's in itself "a" flex. And you just made argument yourself that your partner has it slightly harder you when it comes to getting lots of sex. Which is neither good nor bad but with difficulty comes more recognition
Calling it a flex proves my point about people trying to flex about it. Lol Because it's not a flex, it's just a thing. If that's something someone feels the need to be proud of, they must really not have much going on in their life. Lol
I don't see why being proud of this means the person is somehow a loser. It's just like dunking in basketball: everyone in the NBA does it so when a guy does it there it's just a part of the game. But when a woman dunks in the WNBA people talk about it and she feels the need to be proud of it and flex it hard. That's because it's something that most women cannot do so the one who can instantly feels proud that doesn't mean she has nothing else going on in her life. The hook up thing is the exact same thing
I recently heard it described as this:
"Women must protect their value, men must earn it." Essentially, men fight to become valuable, men fight to hold onto it.
It's an intersting take on it although I would argue that not all women are valuable by default and many need to "earn" it as well. It's just a different path to do it. The simple act of taking care of your body, your fashion, your mannerisms is enough for a woman to gain value while men need to do all that AND demonstrate high value with proactive actions.
Taking care of yourself is a matter of maintaining that virtue - if it isn't well upkept, it tends to diminish. I think people are forcing men to try to take care of themselves, but truly I think it comes down to being competent.
I don’t understand the use of flex. What you stated is true though. Some guys have better experience but most guy’s’ situation is exactly how you expressed it
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It's wrong to sleep around irregardless of what gender you are. Period.
You'd be surprised how much right and wrong are meaningless in real life
I'm just saying that we shouldn't shame either of them, or hold same standards for both
Women try to flex with it but it really doesn’t work that way. I think men who flex with it are trash as well, but it goes over better
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