Is prude shaming worse than slut shaming?

We're all familiar with slut shaming and how girl's whose bodyweight is 20% semen are shamed by society. But what of the other end of the scale, the girls who don't participate in normal social sexual practises. I'm not talking about those who's religious beliefs forbid such behaviour or those who are truly asexual, but rather the normal girls that refuse to do stuff, the sex wallflowers.
I can get guys frustrations with these girl's, everyone else is letting you have guys have their fun but when you (or anyone) approaches these girls they don't offer the same as their friends.
For want of a better term these girls often face prude shaming from normal girls but is this better, worse or equal to slut shaming?
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Superb Opinion

  • I have more respect for a girl who doesn't offer it up first date. Always have done. Maybe it's generational, I don't know.

    I met a girl on a training course a few years ago. Back then I had a bit more muscle and two legs. First night, all the trainees together in the hotel bar and she comes and sits next to me. Not a problem until she starts talking about her last job as a guide on 20s or Club 18-30 or something similar where she got to know so many guys. Biblically. One drink later and she's got her hand on my inner thigh - which since I was wearing shorts was terrifying. I don't get hit on very much. I'd say "never" except for her. I don't notice the signs perhaps.

    But I'm far more comfortable with a girl who holds back until we're actually a couple.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Don't be daft.

    That's like saying "is being too honest, as bad as being too dishonest?"

    Not every girl wants, or needs, to put out at asking. In fact you want less girls timid putting out, so the real pussy poppers can make the rounds and make the lads happy.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I am guilty of prude shaming. I have a really low tolerance for close-minded people, like those who think you will go to hell if you do any other sexual act than missionary with your own spouse.

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  • I am not sure it is comparable. Ia prude shaming bad? Yes. Is slut shaming bad? Yes. Just let people be and do what they want. You wanna have sex with someone, ask them if they want to. Their answer is literally all you need to know.

  • Every girl begins their life as a prude and especially if she is frigid the prude shaming happens. So when she caves in, then the slut shaming happens 😂 basically she can't win. I think prude shaming is worse because it's making you're ability to break out of it harder with self doubt.

    • Prude shaming will just lead to slut shaming because the prude will feel pressured to be more of a slut, and since the majority of feeble minds can't see anything in between said person will either be a prude or a slut.

    • @lecher a pussy torn by shame

  • Huh, are you for real? 20% body weight us seimen? How did that even come about? 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 This is too much. Lol

  • It's worse

  • Frost queens.

  • Both are repulsive and not acceptable.

  • "20% of her bodyweight is semen"

    😂😂😂😂that's hilarious

  • Any kind of shaming ie bad.

  • what is prude shaming?

  • It's worse and weird if you want to stay clean good on you just don't be too religious it's brainwashing honey