Sex in public revolves around sexual fantasies. As with every sexual fantasy/fetish, ensure to ask your sex partner whether they are excited about the idea FIRST. If they are not comfortable, stop it. If you don't have the self-esteem (yet) to talk about dirty things loudly, you may whisper into the ear; eye contact for the advanced. If you don't know how to talk, this partner might not be the one with whom you can practice the fantasy; accept it.
But in case they are, ask them what exactly excites them about it. Be concise; your understanding may not be theirs. Even better, ask them to tell you a romantic story about their fantasies, so you get a better idea of what turns them on (and off). In any case, tell them yours in return.
Don't be intimidated if you did not determine your sexual fantasies yet, and don't be afraid to ask your partner for ideas (causing your brain to create your own options). Useful to know: the more self-confident you are, the more sexual fantasies you have. Women can have and do have their very own, very wild sexual fantasies.
Romantic/erotic fantasies vary a lot, especially between women and men. You will be surprised to learn about the more detailed actions, circumstances, and happenings of their fantasies. Once both of you are aware, you can use that info at any time to your advantage, to tease your partner and play, big time. Also, even just the act of romantic/erotic story telling on its own may stimulate you - possibly even more than the act itself. Not every fantasy has to turn into reality.
Your examples certainly sound exciting to me, but I'm a guy. I do not believe that public *jobs are really YOUR sexual fantasy; they much rather sound like the one of your partner, 'cos you're doing all the work. (That is, unless you're acting in a very dominant role, enjoying the idea that your submissive partner has to bear all your actions, which sounds like a great fantasy to have, too.)
Think about what excites *you*.0 0 0 0Its pretty exciting lol doing things in places your not supposed to.
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It is pretty good, and I definitely would say everybody should try it at least once. It's hot and exciting.
1 1 0 0I like it. But everyone has their own strange kinks.
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0 7It is a huge turn-on for me! I love being watched. There are a few websites where you can turn your camera on and be watched masturbating and having sex and watch others doing it.
I am an exhibitionist and love it!1 0 0 0Sure, it is fun.
i like your examples1 1 0 0some people might be into public sex, but personaly i don't like it. i want to keep it private
0 0 0 1I've fantasized about this too. I think its a turn on as long as kids aren't watching haha
1 1 0 0Oh yeah it's haaawwwt! Dangerous, exciting. .. all of the above. There's really no rules about it except don't get caught. .. lol
0 1 0 0I love doing it in public :)
1 1 0 0I have gotten hand jobs and blow jobs in a theater to the point I came
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