Is really intimate sex talks normal between a guy and a girl who are just friends?

Is really intimate sexual talks between a guy and girl who are only platonic friends a normal thing? Subjects include things like preferences in the ways someone has sex or pleasures for them or their partner, favorite positions, and past sexual experiences in detail. We have never done anything physical between us. Just have become close friends over the last 6 months.
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  • It's probably kind of rare to run into someone that will be open to that. I feel like guys are always willing to share this information, but to find a woman that responds to that and shares her viewpoints is kind of rare. I personally have only had one woman that would do that, and we've talked for almost 4 years now about random things. In each case we mostly just talk about the weird fetish things we have that would totally turn off a bunch of people. Then we can get that out of our system and go back to being normal people. So I guess you could call that a form of therapy almost. haha

    • We have talked about fetishes but its mostly about what I like doing or done to me. Or what he likes done to him and what he doesn't like done. Or what we have done with others. Like I like girls too and use to have threesomes with my last spouse. That subject comes up a lot.

    • That makes sense. That's pretty much what we've talked about too, without the whole threesome thing. That is pretty cool to have someone around like that for you though!

Most Helpful Guy

  • I’ve been lucky enough to have several women for friends who I could talk very openly about sex with and not have it end up in bed.

    And I was able to speak about sex very bluntly with my mother, who wasn’t the least bit squeamish about the subject.

    Believe it or not, women just happen to know a few things about this topic that are pretty handy to be aware of.

    Don’t ignore a good intel source.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Sure, there is nothing unusual about such conversations between friends.

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  • no he likes you. say would he talk about this with other girls? if not then its you he wants.

    he is almost like a burglar staking out a job seeing if it will work before making his move

    • I know he has other girls who are friends but I doubt these conversations come up cause they are all ones he only see once in a while. He literally talks to me from morning til he calls it a night and sees me almost everyday even if just a few minutes.

    • oh he deffo likes you then. he is just not making the move as, he doesn't want to loose you as a friend, but i am guessing that you would like him to make the move? if so you may have to instigate it and start it. but to do that, he likes you.

  • Yeah I get it a lot.

    every time I’ve dated etc, I pop to pub or I have friends over, it’s details details.

    i am very open and so are my friends.

    One of my girl mates, ages ago gave me a full run down on giving oral to a girl. Admittedly it was pointless returning the favour lol

  • Daydream... As long as there is mutual respect and a level of maturity I don't think it is an issue. I have had friends that were girls but not girlfriends so to speak. We talked about sex mostly out of curiosity... up to a certain point. It is ok to talk about sex after all!

  • Friends talk about anything. Bros talk about fucking a whole lot, as a matter of fact.
    Things shouldn't change only because the fucking in exam could go on between the two of you.

  • Perfectly normal with a trusted friend.

  • From my POV, yes, they are. It's great to discuss sex and sex lives with a female friend. I had a, what I call, a friend with benefits, (but no fucking) She and I talked openly, and graphically about our separate sex lives and I am sure she, as well as I masturbated to each other's descriptions.
    Great relationship to have if you ask me.

    • I was very sad that she married, later, and I moved to California, and lost contact with her.

  • Some "How To" are.

    • How to? Like saying how to do it?

    • Yes. Sexual technique.

    • Not really saying how to. More like what I like and what he likes. What I will do or want done or he likes done to him

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  • I did have a friend that I could have talks about sex. We both lost our virginity on the same day (with different partners) and we had a long discussion about our experiences.

  • Honestly, I don't think so and it sounds more like friends with benefits. Have you mentioned hooking up? Or do you have a desire?

    • I would not mind it. I think he knows the desire for me is there because of comments I have made and I told him bluntly that I would give him a blow and he was like we would have to move up another level for that.

    • Another level? What the hell is wrong with him, lol.

    • 🤣🤣🤣

  • Well guys generally enjoy talking sex with cute girls

  • I don't know how normal it is but I've never had a problem to openly discuss sex.

  • Friends with benefit is also a viable option.

  • That’s more than friends. Just fuck him already

  • Not possible.

  • i have had convos like that. Not a big deal. Everyone gets horny and some people like to just talk about it with people they trust

  • It's possible to be friends. I had someone whom I used to talk about sex and stuff. Still we are good friends. It's kinda weired at the beginning but we are good now.

  • not sure some find it odd or creepy i for one talk about sex a lot im very open with sex

  • That would be... tough

  • Absolutely normal