Is rude or weird that my friends told my friend's girlfriend who I barely met that I was a virgin?

We went out and drank. On the car ride she was telling me of I had any exes I kinda stayed quiet but my friends said that no he's a virgin. I got a flustered and she started asking me questions and other things 😖🥺
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  • Aww dude. 50/50. Either it was very rude, or your friend was trying to help you get laid. I don’t know the situation enough.

    if it was just to embarrass you in front of a girl then that sucks, friends don’t do that.
    but if it was to find you a girl through this other friend then maybe it was his way of trying to help you.
    I’d talk to your friend about it, I would

    • I don't think he meant it as a bad way but I took as that because I rarely share that information with anyone besides my close friends. I'm trying to get dates but no luck. It's just been me and trying dating apps for now.

  • It was probably ment in fun but it was rude. Your sex life (or lack of) is your business and this was not the right time to bring it up.

    • True, just feel awkward that I still haven't had a sex life and all of my peers do

    • I know there is a lot of social and per pressure to have sex and that masturbation may not be as much fun. However, the right girl will enter your life when you least suspect it. Try to get involved with some new people and interests where there are a lot of girls your age

    • Yeah you're right about that, I'm trying to do new things and go out more

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  • it could be... what you make out of it, that's also a choice...

  • That is very rude

    • You think so too 🥺

    • Yes.

    • K, talk to more in private

  • That was not cool. If they did it to ridicule you it is even worse. The key to this is to not be flustered. This does not make you somehow deficient. You just haven't met the right person is all.

    • Yeah, well I ws already drunk and I show my emotions much eaiser

  • It is a bit rude and embarrassing I suppose, but there's really nothing wrong with it, Some friends can be that way.

  • It was slightly rude, yes. But don't get upset about it. I'll tell you why. This could actually be a good thing for you. See, this chick is your boy's girlfriend, but she knows other girls. She might be able to set you up with someone. So when she asks you about your personal life, just be honest and tell her the truth. And be confident about it.

  • Not very good friends. Not their business to share.

  • What kind of questions was she asking you

    • Like, why haven't dated, what are you waiting for, why can't you get a girlfriend, and are you going to get a escort?

  • Ehh, not great but slips happen. Seems like you care more than they do.

  • It was RUDE...

  • It might be rude and think of it as bad publicity is still publicity. I am hoping some day it will help you.

    • Yeah, maybe who knows

  • It's very rude. Imagine talking about about their past sexual stories in front of their future or current girlfriends. They most likely blocked your chance from getting with any of her single friends because women hate virgins

    • Damm they do? 😳

  • Yes, and disrespectful. Personal and private information that's nobody's business, not even theirs! I'm sure they wouldn't appreciate it either if it was them. Might have to have a little "chat" with them?

  • They probably wanted to see if she would tease or emasculate you

    • Maybe who knows