Is saying I don’t feel comfortable sharing a private bedroom with a lesbian girl as a straight girl wrong?

[Anonymous]

[Ez-Bri-Z]

As a lesbian in a committed relationship I wouldn't want to share a room with a straight girl who had a problem with me. It is super insulting to think that just because I'm married to another woman that I would want to have anything to do with a woman who 1) isn't my wife 2) is straight. You make it sound like we are some sort of deviant who won't be able to resist temptation or something.

[SphynxUK]

You know how you feel.


Do you think all lesbians are attracted to every female that walks the earth though?

[Surely]

I would not say it was wrong. Unless you know that she is planning on having her way with you. You may not be her type and absolutely nothing would be out of the ordinary.
I went on vacation with a bisexual man. We had fun and nothing sexual happened between us.

[MotorcycleMan]

If you are not comfortable, you are not comfortable. You shouldn't be made to feel guilty about it.

[Chimzi777]

No I understand it

[Nikki6t6]

Nah, it’s just that you feel like she might throw a move on you and you’re not down. If she’s never given you a hint… you shouldn’t worry

[Wise4myage]

No, and I can understand where you're coming from too.

[Enigma69]

well if you feel uncomfortable then u should be allowed privacy.

[Dchrls78104]

No, it's not. I wouldn't feel comfortable going into a house where a guy man lived, or even allowing him to enter my car.

[Dchrls78104]

*a gay man*

[Hanrej]

No. It's not.

[Luckycharms12]

Well firstly just because she is gay doesn't mean she wants to fuck you

[Hanrej]

True. But on the same basis, are you comfortable allowing men and women to share sleeping arrangments? After all just because they're different sexes doesn't mean they want to fuck.

[Asker]

Exactly.. I didn’t mean any harm with my questions. I think it will make it super awkward and uncomfortable for the both of us. It would be like sharing a bedroom with a strange male.. he may not want to fuck me but we are still in the same room

[anylolone]

Not necessarily wrong to say it, kinda stupid and wrong to feel it.

[Anonymous]

I don't think so. This is a gut feeling and you could probably get over it in time, but you can't actually control it.