Is Sex a showing of Love?

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Like i was just thinking🤔

Do we show maximum Love to another person by giving them max sexual pleasure...

Like, is Love = giving sexual pleasure?

Because if we love someone we want to see them happy and we know orgasm and sex stimulation is very pleasurerable

So thats why we want to Make Love to a person we love? What if person doesn't give us sex means they dont lovr us?

Like..."I love you so much, I wanna give you max pleasure"

But if people use sex just as physical satisfsction , say prostitute, its not love it... just getting pleasure for free Kinda?

No emotions involved, does it mean sex with no love lack depth? Like... does it mean it makes sex less intimate, less private, less valuable, less sacred?

How come sex as giving love vs sex just consumptions of another persons body can be the same process?

[dynamicyandere]

Sex CAN be a very powerful expression of love and a very intimate gesture, but only when it’s used in that way.


Not all sex = love.


But love can be powerfully EXPRESSED through sex.


Like, not every smile means that someone can be trusted.


But, a trusted friend can use a smile to put you at ease.


My girlfriend and I have a very strong fusion between love and sex. When we are feeling affectionate and romantic, we also want sex. And, during or after sex, we also want to be affection and romantic.


Some people have a separation between love and sex. But, I strongly believe that love and sex were meant to be expressed together.


In a way, love with sex is love expressed in its fullest potential. And, sex with love is sex experienced at its fullest potential.


(This is in the context of romantic relationships of course.)

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

How can you know that sex given to you is actually their form to show their love to you? I mean how to know if sex is "i love you" Vs Sex is "im horny i just wanna get laid" How to spot the difference?

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

I can't separate sex and love I can't be having sex just for example by penetration I love cuddle i love kissing him cuddling him Not just open my legs and thats it I mean how can people have sex with someone they dont feel like licking their face or kissing their chest or back? I know damn well i need to have feelings to desire to kiss soemones back... if i dont feel like doing it , if i do t even have desire to hug them or smell them grope and kiss his whole bodh How can i have sex? Which is even more intimate

[dynamicyandere]

In order to spot the difference, you’d need to really get to know him. You’d need to not jump into it too quickly. Understand his views on sex and love, and have the intuition to tell if he’s being sincere. I believe love and sex should be connected and that’s how I live my life and make my decisions regarding sex. I’ve never slept with anyone that I haven’t been in a serious long-term relationship with. But yeah, you will need to really get to know a guy before you can tell. You’ll need to talk about it, and know him well enough to be able to tell whether or not he is being sincere or just telling you what you want to hear.

[RasmusAiken]

Love is wanting the very best for someone and acting sacrificially and consistently to achieve what is in their best interest. Few relationships can do this well but it is a desired goal of all loving relationships. While sex is generally part of a loving relationship it is not an absolute necessity.

[CrazyGirl2]

Well first, No! Sex does not “equal love”. To me (and it is personal, and different for everyone) sex is merely an expression of that love! You love someone, so you want to be close to them, and you kiss them, or hug them. As things progress you want to feel even closer to them so you touch them in a place that most people are tot allowed to touch, or more likely for us, he touches us, and because we DO love him, we decide to allow it this time instead of moving his hand. But then as your love grows, you just want to share ALL of yourself with him, you wand to be as close as humanly possible with him, you want to feel him inside you. THEN you have sex with him. To express that love and to feel closer to him than any other human ever could.

[LazerBean]

It can be, but it rarely is. Sex does not equate to love.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

How come Yes it does

[Guy13]

Agape: sacrificial love.

Eros:physical lust.

Phila: brotherly love

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

I dont get it sorry

[Guy13]

Like those words up and read about them. If you do that then you will answer your own question about Love.

[Berethor]

With prostitute no but if a woman don't put out for her man then it don't seems that she love him.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

I agree But didn't get about prostitute

[Berethor]

Sex with a prostitute is only physical, not emotional, though some clients fallen in love.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

How can sex be separate from love

[Berethor]

If you want to be technical about it, the main purpose of sex is not showing love or giving pleasure, the main purpose of sex is reproduction, a lot of animals have sex without love. Yes having sex without emotions make sex less sacred, but sex don't have to be sacred in the first place, as long as you have offspring it don't matters to nature, and even religion-wise there is the saying "be fruitful and multiply", it says nothing about love or pleasure. There is differences between love and lust, though it don't matters much to nature, and men tend to be more sexual and less emotional then women, so yea men clearly tend to prefer sex over hugs and kisses, many women are totally okay with having a relationship with only hugs and kisses, while vast majority of men are not okay with having a relationship without sex. In the end of the day it don't matter if you don't overly sexual, as long as you show your feelings through sex, as long as you have sex with your boyfriend then he is not likely to cheat or leave.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

In my case im the one asking for sex because he is laways not in the mood or depressed and never wants sex

[Berethor]

A man is always eager trope, it's sure odd when a man don't wants sex, maybe he asexual.

[jshm2]

No.

You're just confused about the difference between love, sex, attachment and needs.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Explain then

[Dargil]

I think cunnilingus is an act of love. Whenever I give it, I need to at least temporarily feel love.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

You think men do it to woman he loves or just any woman?

[Dargil]

I have to be at least fond of her to some extent. I want to show her love. This is more true with cunni than anything else sexual. If I give a girl cunni, I generate fondness for her in my mind. Weird?

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Nice Not weird My boyfriend did id then stopped doing it for like 10 month Then started again No idea why

[elizamichale1]

Yes it can be

[Andres77]

On a small scale, Yes

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

And on a big scale?

[Andres77]

Sacrifice, giving in many different ways.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Love? So sex its just a small part of love?

[Andres77]

Sex can be just animalistic urges or you can express your desire for another and give them pleasure because you want them to feel good. It's a form of expression at all levels in a relationship

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

But what if a person doesn't show his love using sex? Why many men fuck prostitutes while having a wife Means... he doesn't love her? Tbis part of love, sex, is not given to his wife but to a prostitute Why is that

[Andres77]

Sometimes sex is just sex. Some guys want dirtier sex than their wife will tolerate so some husbands seek that with those who are willing.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

What is dirties sex,,,?

[Andres77]

The kind of sex you might get from a fun prostitute, stuff a wife won’t do

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Interesting.. like what? Do you think wifes dont do what prostitutes do? wifes are not fun in bed? Things like what?

[Andres77]

Can we dm?

[Andres77]

Some wives are fun and adventurous and wild. Some are extremely conservative and prudish.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Yeah sure dm me What men like in bed?

[Andres77]

You have to follow me

[soe11]

Yes indeed it's a essentials part of love.

[Alex8736]

are you a virgin?

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Nope

[EaterPeter]

Probably not. But ultimate way of liking?

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Why not Really? So you... you put your penis in another persons vagina Just because you "like" her? Like... pum. i like you. here take my penis. Its how it works in your head? no emotions... no nothing?

[EaterPeter]

Oh no emotions definetly

[EaterPeter]

Emotions

[EaterPeter]

I am hesitant of saying love due to one big baf experience

[EaterPeter]

Love is usually one way. It's hardly reciprocated properly

[jimmy2]

Sex with love is beautiful

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

How to know its love or not?