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Is Sex all about good looks and attractiveness?

Do people who are not attractive have problem with having sex or is it all about other features a person should have?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • No, it's not. I think there has to be some level of physical attraction, but it's definitely not all about that. The emotional connection is important too - I think more important. A couple of my past girlfriends would probably be considered average looking by most people, but I found them very appealing - probably because of the emotional connection. And when that emotional connection was lost, the sexual interest went away also even though they didn't look any different.

    And even though I think some level of physical attraction is needed, the good news is that different people find different features physically attractive. Many women that a lot of guys think are super hot I don't really find all that attractive, and some women that other guys don't think look that good I think look great. So whatever your physical features, there's hope. If you're a nice person and find the right match, they will appreciate you and find you sexually appealing.

  • 1) many aged couples.(past 50s) also have sex. These definitely had survived the lavishing of youth charms.

    2) personally, I find the lack of sexual confidence a big turn off. Hence apart from "basic" bodily features, i want her to be sexually confident especially about her physical looks.

    3) while facial beauty gives the "first impeession", i like a girl with curvy body. Ultimately, sex requires undressing of the bodies and minds. So i like a nice butt with a vulnerable personality.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Chemistry matters too.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • It’s also about technique.

    • every girl is different. there is no one particular technique

  • Good looks tend to be the main reason for a guy to feeling attention to a girl.

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MenAreStrongWomenArePretty

  • Sex is an ACT. It can be loving or animalistic. It depends on the people involved and their feelings toward each other.

  • I know plenty of hot dudes who have sex with ugly big girls all the time. No they are not attracted to them, but they tell me that pussy is pussy and it’s better than getting none. It’s gross, but trust me, some guys and even a lot of guys will have sex with pretty much any girl.

  • Depends on the person. Some people can fuck without emotion or attraction. I personally can't

  • Sex is more about the emotional bond than looks

  • Those are definitely important but that's not all there is to it.

  • All I can say is that in my experience all vaginas look the same in the dark. It is your mind that makes me want you and if we don't click on that level, frankly, I couldn't care less about anything else.

  • What you're basically referring to is about appearance (like is appearance the only thing about sex). The answer of that is no, Attraction and looks are a small part of the direction of sex but what really would make the difference to it is the emotions.

    Think about it like this: You won't have sex with a person that mistreats you because of the personality (emotions). A some characteristics are similar (it doesn't have to be abusive), when I refer to that is mostly what makes you think that is not attractive to you.

    In short attraction and looks are only a small percentage of interest in a person but the emotions are what attract us even more, leading (to eventually, if things go right) to sex. This could change from interest to disinterest (or vice versa) in any given second.

    Hope this helps.

  • Not ALL about that, but the more attracted you are to the person, the more excited and into them you'll be, which means it will feel better. So, I would say it's mostly about that. But not entirely.

  • Yes. That's why I'll never have it, it's just selfish lust.

  • Nope its mostly hormones and the drive to get it on. 😂

  • As much as it disgusts me, ugly people fuck the shit out of each other all the time, so obviously not

  • You mean features which don't need to be attractive?

    • I don't know for example, being confident and funny and overwhelming.

  • No, it's about the attitude and how another person see you

  • Attractiveness is subjective, so no.

  • For me good looks and body features matter before I take a naked woman to my bed. I can't stand ugly or untidy women.

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