I wouldn't do that again. My longest relationship was with someone I slept with on the first date. And I felt guilty about it. I really liked him and we clicked like noone I ever met before it wasn't meant to happen. But it did.
In the later years I learned that this was the norm for him and he judged me everyday since because of it.
I really didn't think it was such a deal once he really got to know me. But clearly first impressions weren't so good.
I know it doesn't really change that much but I felt like I know him because we went to the same college, an assumption that I'll never make again
Wouldn't you say it's more a him problem rather than a sex problem though? Him judging you for the whole relationship is him being toxic and if you didn't have sex the first date, something else might've come up that he would judge you for. He's just a shitty person in my opinion. I'm sorry for this experience though. It sounds really painful.
I completely agree. But it's taught me one thing really and it's to be more cautious. I guess you can say that's the negative effect this has had on me but I'd rather be safe than sorry. I believe in growing and learning from my mistakes, you just never know who you're dealing with.
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I think it's a neutral thing. I think having a strict rule of "no sex on the first date" is not a good idea. Go with the flow and see where it lands. If the chemistry and the right vibe is there and you have the option available, why not? If the guy/girl likes you, it shouldn't have mattered that you did that.
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That is a hookup in my opinion. I would much rather get to know someone on a emotional level and know they want something committed and serious before having sex.
I have done it but wouldn't recommend it, sex just changes a relationship dynamic. Better to get to know each other first in a non sexual relationship before making that change.
Once you make that change, you can never go back.
Well to certain people its not a good sign to me it soesnt really sound like a good sign either buti met my boyfriend on a dating site i can't remember the name of it but we spoke for a few weeks to know each other better and talk then i went to his house the night i was going to meet him we both live with our mothers he 28 iam 32 well when i met him i was 29 he was 24 but we had sex the first time it never stopped we humped like gorillas i would have said no but qhen i seen the aize of his cock 7inch nd a bit long biggest av ever had a had to open my door and say ure welcome cum in
I personally think its unsanitary. I need mutually emotional attachment and to be in love with someone before i have sex with them. And thats surely not happening by the first date
These days especially because of what’s in the air sex on the first date should be the last thing one anyones mind. I personally need 3 months to get to know a guy and build a connection aside from physical attraction.
Depends on the chemistry or if it’s a hookup (or potential friends with benefits). If I’ve been friends with a guy for a while before the date, then I know him and see no reason not to, unless he is not on the same page.
Having sex on a first date makes it a hook up, not a date, in my opinion.
I've never had sex on the first day, I always wanted to get to know someone first and have an emotional connection with them first.
I think it depends on the couple. It could be good like it ended up being in my now 7 yr relationship or it could be bad like it has been with other people.
Consensual sex is.
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