Is sex or affection more important to men?

I’m a lovely dovey time that craves affection from my partner way more that sex itself. Sex is great but it’s the cuddling, spooning, kissing etc that I really need in relationships.

Are men more about the sex or do they love the affection too?

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  • Sex is nice, but I've always craved the intimacy of hand-holding, hugging, kissing, spooning, nuzzling

  • I don’t think we can make generalizations so broadly like this

  • it's a combination of things, communication, sense of humor, teamwork (2 way street). without that the person is ugly inside and hold you back

  • If you love your partner, affection will win. If you are not in love with her, it will vary

  • Sex, Because if a Girl is Affectionate toward us we usually wonder wether She really likes us or if She is using us or wasting our time.

    Sex proves that She really likes us, That's why we want it so much, It is Probably because we usually have less chance of getting it.

  • both

  • Why do we have to choose

  • I have to be honest I need both but if I had to pic one it would be affection

  • Affection for sure!.

    For me, there is no sex without affection and affection does not automatically lead to sex but is an important aspect of friendship which is very important to me.

    Thankfully I do not have to pick one! :-)

  • Affection is soaking a person in love ofc its best

  • The desire for sex with the person you love is important to me.

  • Yes, I would say in general it is more important.

  • I think what most women fail to realize is that for men sex is a very important part of feeling emotionally fulfilled and connected.