Is sex with a big penis better?

My boyfriend is the only man I've ever been with. He is pretty small down there though and our sex is quick and unsatisfying. Do you think his size matters? I lately have been catching myself fantasizing about being pounded by a huge cock. Lol. But maybe I'm not missing much? Lol
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  • It's all personal preference. First of all, what's your boyfriend's size? A lot of girls, and I mean a lot, have a twisted perception of what a guy's size is considered.

    Before my current boyfriend, I had never experienced anyone over 6 inches, no one "girthy" either. I'm also very petite and small. 6 inches flat is the length of my friend with benefits I had while I was single-- average girth, that was a good amount of cock for me already. Again, I'm small. I actually used to feel like 5 inches was perfect for my body (considering I partake in all oral, vaginal, and anal sex). 5 inches is statistically average.

    And then my, now boyfriend, walks into my life dragging his 8" x 6" dick into my life, so now I get to tell you about that. At first, it was a bit of a problem because (since I had never experienced anyone larger than 6 inches before him) I had to train and get used to oral sex with him, intercourse was difficult. There was this one time where he ripped part of my vaginal wall inside me and I started bleeding. Yes, I said vaginal wall-- not hymen (I'm faaar from being a virgin). I couldn't have sex for, like, two or three weeks because it was SO painful (and let me tell you, I have an extremely high sexual pain tolerance)-- it was impossible to have intercourse while my vagina was under construction.

    I mean, we're good now. It still takes a moment to get him in after lots of foreplay and lubrication and all that, but intercourse is a lot easier than it was before. Also after lots of practice, I'm finally used to performing oral on his size too-- it isn't a problem anymore.

    But YES-- there are some things a larger penis can do that a smaller size can't do. However, this does not in any way mean sex will be better because there are toys available for use. It depends on the guy and how good he is in bed and how open he is. It won't matter how big he is if he doesn't know how to use it.

    It all depends. But my final answer is yes, in my opinion, it feels better, but it comes with a lot of trouble, pain, and discomfort-- which I am perfectly okay with-- some girls don't like feeling the slightest discomfort and some girls don't enjoy pain so it all depends. The reason why it feels better is because not only is my boyfriend fantastic in bed in general (with his mouth and hands and body), but if you only narrow it and simplify it down to the motion of intercourse, a larger penis makes you literally feel fuller, therefore sex is more intense in a way.

    • Oh my god, I used perfectly all 2,500 characters.

    • It sounds silly to go throw all that... clearly your not naturally meant for something that large to go in there... clearly you actually damaged your insides 5-6 inches was your size, now you messed that up..

    • @TripleAce You're right, my natural build doesn't handle my boyfriend's size smoothly. However, going through all that isn't silly, because I'm in a relationship with this person, and I love him dearly. (It's obviously not his fault for having a big dick.) I'm going to have to correct you, though, on your last sentence. "5-6 inches was your size, now you messed that up." Now, I'm going to assume you meant it in a physical way--correct me if I'm wrong-- but there is no such thing. If I'm right, and you meant that I physically messed it up, I must tell you, you're wrong. My vagina will stretch during intercourse, of course, but that's it. After intercourse, my vagina begins regenerating itself-- healing-- and returns to its normal, tight, smooth, fair skinned shape. No, I'm not a cyborg or anything-- ALL vaginas "heal". Vaginas elongate, expand, and lubricate to be able to accept any penis. The shape of the vagina also varies due to where she's currently at in her menstrual cycle.

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  • If you fantasize about being pounded by a huge cock, break up and find a guy with a bigger cock so you don't end up cheating on him! Poor dears, the both of you. <3 You like what you like, and you can't help it. It's not his fault, but it's not yours either. Sexual compatibility is very important in a relationship.

  • I luuuuuuuuuuuuurve monster cocks + won't apologise to anyone for it.

    Two reasons = I like challenging my body + am a masochist who lives for pain :)

    • You are a very honest woman... bravo.

Most Helpful Guys

  • My friends with benefits is a woman that lost her V to her husband on their wedding night. He barely makes it to the average mark.

    She was fantasizing about being done by a big penis and we finally did it a few months ago.

    I did ask her to tell me how she felt it was different. Psychologically she said when I have sex with her it feels that a man is doing it with her where with her husband it feels like just a boy.

    Physically, the thickness of mine makes her feel fuller and she likes the feel of that pain especially when I go in fast into her. The length does make a difference to her, she is also a "bigger girl" with me she doesn't need to prop her butt or hips for me to enter and she could feel it that I'm penetrating her deeper.

    One of the best thing she said is she could be the one on top and when she chooses to go fast my penis doesn't slip out.

  • I know two guys, and they admit that they aren't 'packing', but they both have REALLY hot GF's! How? they know 'other' ways to please them! Studies show that most women don't really find 'normal' intercourse arousing, or 'orgasmic'!
    What about 'priming the pump' with a little close, intimate 'kissing' on those pretty pink parts?
    OK, maybe a bit more than kissing, but when you are in the neighborhood, why not check it our?

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  • Bigger is better... My o my!!! :D

  • huge cock will hit areas he can't, so yeah it's probably better to a certain degree

  • No size doesn't matter as long as he doesn't have a micro penis (google it to see how small a penis has to be to count as a micro penis). Your boyfriend is just bad in sex, its not the size. And the fact that he cums to quickly is the best proof. He has to change positions sometimes and continue with giving oral to let his dick calm down thats how you Stretch the time and make sure that she cums too. He needs to do research.

  • You would just have quick and unsatisfying sex with a bigger dick...

  • It can be, it all depends on what type of pleasure you like. Some girls like big dicks cause they like getting hit on their cervix, they like that pain. Other girls hate big dicks cause they don't like that pain.
    Your guy, unless he's like 2 inches, isn't good at sex. Period. A small dick can still satisfy a girl, and if it can't, he can always use his tongue. I know many girls who'd rather have tongue than dick, cause it's easier to cum by oral than by penetration.

    • Everyone I have known is choosing the 'clit love' over penetration, and twice on Sunday!! Learn to love that little bit, and most will just melt!!

    • He's right, your boyfriend sucks at sex.

  • Being "quick" is probably his biggest problem. A large penis only helps if he knows how to use it. With comparible skill in bed, most women will prefer average to above average size, and won't like small or huge.

  • Most of the times it's a mental thing... physically it's not usually better... so if mentally a bigger penis turns you on obviously it's going to feel better

    But if you are blindfolded and a small then a big one entered you... I bet you'd choose the smaller one

  • My guess is this is more and issue of skill over size. He sounds like a lover who needs to work on his technique. But maybe you are a size queen and would find a larger guy more satisfying. Of course this would require you finding a new boyfriend... are you prepared to do that?

  • Most girls like. But i know women have more orgasms in lesbian sex.

    • That's not true.

    • @playdatesx Yes, it is true. Unless you don't like girls anyway.

  • You could always get a dildo that is bigger and try it to see if it is a better fit. Not cheating, just experimenting. Also tell you boyfriend what feels good. If he is as I experienced as you, he has a lot of learning to do and he needs to be told what to do or not do. Communication is the key.

  • How small is your boyfriend OP? Roughly

  • Firstly, if the sex is bad then do something about it. Communication is key.

    It's not about the penis, its about how its used. Don't blame his size.
    Don't just lay there, put some effort in, even finish yourself off if you have to...

    Secondly sex with a big penis most of the time hurts the girl more than pleasures her.
    Some girls think they want big but when the guy drops trou they're like "get away, don't put that thing inside me it's too big to fit".

  • Big is better if the guy is good, if he's considerate and sensitive, if he's not it will probably be worse. That's the truth of it.

  • I say yes because mine is big lol.

  • Too big is painful. I like width over length. Il

    • What size is ideal

  • how small is he?

    • 4 inches I'd guesstimate? Lol

    • damn that is smalll :( is he asian?

    • Lol... nope

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  • Depends on how big. Too big is painful.

    • What size is perfect

  • And I must believe that size don't matter for you all. Bull shit xD