Is sexting with a married man cheating?

This guy is married but we've been sexting is that considered cheating?
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  • It doesn't matter whether you think it can "technically" be excluded from the definition of cheating. That is a word game you play to try to convince yourself that what you are doing really isn't that bad.

    Here's the real news, nothing fake here: what you are doing is awful and you should feel ashamed of yourself.

    Is this something that he tells his wife about? Has he introduced you to her? Have you been to their house for dinner? No, no, and no.. Why not? Because he doesn't want his wife to find out about this; it is your secret. And why must it be kept a secret? Because this is violating her trust and the expectations that she has for a man who promised to love her and no one else for the rest of their lives.

    How would you feel is you found out that one of your female friends had a crush on your father and was sexting him, talking about what she wants to do with his body, and sending him naked pictures of her young body? How would you feel about your father treating your mother that way?

    Ultimately, the guy - and not you - is responsible to his wife for violating her trust, but you bear some responsibility as a willing participant who doesn't care about the feelings of others.

    Take a few steps back and look at what you've done. If you don't feel disgusted with yourself, you are morally bankrupt.

    • Bingo

    • I haven't sent him any pictures of me at all I started talking to him because he works in the profession that I want to work in. And he said he would give me a tour of his business. I made a post and I flirted a little but I was only trying to be nice. But then he said I turned him on and we started texting.

    • It doesn't matter...

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  • I don't know, why don't you ask his WIFE whether she considers it to be cheating?

    She would know, she would be the expert! No one else can tell her whether it's cheating or not, it's her unfortunate duty to decide for herself and to decide what steps to take as a result.

    Listen to me, woman. Listen to what I say: If you EVER want to be happily married to a man who loves you and is faithful to you, how can you deserve to know that joy if you conspire to steal it away from another woman? You owe this woman the truth, because if you abandon the truth, the Truth will abandon you also. If you abandon love, then Love will flee from you wherever you look, and with Truth and Love both fleeing from you, what will you find to take their place? Only death and dishonor. Change your fate now while you can. Protect this woman from her lying cheating, whoredog of a worthless husband. Tell her the truth, send her the texts anonymously, she doesn't need to know who you are, but it's high time somebody shows her who her husband is behind her back.

    If you abandon this woman to cold, cruel fate, your own fate will be far colder and more cruel. If she is innocent, she will be vindicated. You and her husband will be the subjects of that vindication. Remove yourself from this doom while you can, if she finds out before you confess, your confession then will be worthless!

Most Helpful Girls

  • Cheating. That is very much doing so.
    If you have to ask, you know the answer.

  • You do think so and that's why you are writing this question on gag

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Yes it is. He is doing something sexual with some one that is not his wife and your going along with it which doesn't look good for you.

  • Obviously it is.

  • Yep. You are the CHEATEE helping him to shake his balls
    #Matchmadeinhell

  • i think so but i've done it, they're more fun

    • What's more fun?

    • sexting with a married guy

    • Did you actually have sex with him?

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  • It probably is not a good idea.

  • Of course it is. There’s a reason it’s called marriage.. because, it’s suppose to be a long term commitment. Obviously this guy has no respect for his wife and it’s honestly wrong.

  • I mean, from his perspective, yes.

    • So texting is cheating?

  • It's 2thousand20. We have smartphones. We have advanced medicine. We can create much better aesthetic limbs for amputees now. We now know that the Egyptian pyramids were created for energy. We now know that Atlantis was in what is now Mauritania. We can get orders from Amazon in a day or 2...

    But there are still adults who actually have to ask if sexting with a married man is cheating.

  • Is his wife okay with it? If not it’s cheating.

  • His wife would probably think of it as cheating.

    • Just talking?

    • Well it's not just talking it's sexting. I just thought his wife may not approve and think of it as cheating but perhaps they're in an open marriage. If that's the case you could do more with him then sexting.

    • If you want to chat with me I'd be down with that.

  • Yeah..

  • 😂 only if you get caught... jk but yes it is if their relationship is based off of monogamy principles.

  • Cheating is when you treat someone who isn't your s. o, like they are your s. o. This means that any behaviour that is typically reserved for one's s. o should not be directed towards someone else. This definition captures sexting/flirting as you can see, and so in my opinion, yes, you are helping him cheat on his wife.

  • Kinda yeah. Would you want your partner messaging someine else?

  • If his wife knows then nope

  • Yeah because when you give your attention to somebody else to give to another, it creates an imbalance and takes time and energy you should be giving to the one who invests their energy into you. My girl would barely talk to me and was short with me when we did talk but then i found out she'd been talking to my friend which she then told me she had to stop talking to him because it was gonna lead to sex because that's where it was headed. Knowing she wouldn't talk to me because she "was just busy" but had time to talk to him did not set well with me. Had it not been my friend that she knew i didn't care for

  • Depends on your relationship and your view.. it might not be ethical but it might be fine in some homes... I think you should Shair everything with your partner, love breaks when you think it's all perfect.

  • I dont know but that sounds like fun

  • Yes, he is cheating on his wife with you.

  • Yes, by him.

    • So texting is cheating?

    • Yeah, for him it is.

    • For all intents and purposes you might as well be having sex.

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