Is sexual intercourse something no one regrets?

[MementoMori777]

And I'm not speaking about when the person catches an STD but I'm speaking about regret from guilt.

[Irishgirl02]

I know a few women that engaged in casual sex told me they always regretted it and felt empty, used and unsatisfied. A friend of mine said she was never able to cum with a guy until she got into her first relationship with her husband, she trusted him

[Irishgirl02]

.. and felt comfortable enough to orgasm

[MementoMori777]

I can understand that, women are used a lot and the girls that have morals and respect themselves would feel empty and it's understandable, I'm lowkey glad these girls still exist, it shows a lot about them, sex isn't the only thing women can offer and it sucks seeing women believe it's all they are good for, thanks for sharing Irish.

[chrissykerdock]

giving oral sex is something you won't have to regret as you can't get pregnant from giving something like that... and i feel they're very popular a lot of men prefer that as a way of release.

[MementoMori777]

So people don't feel guilt for taking advantage of another person? Interesting

[chrissykerdock]

how can a girl giving head feel that she's taking advantage of a man in need... you would consider it a favor wouldn't you

[MementoMori777]

I believe the opposite, the man is taking advantage of the woman, sexual intercourse isn't a medicine, people do this for pleasure and pleasure isn't needed, pleasure is another for of addiction I think and these people are addicted to sexual pleasures and I'm not denying that it doesn't feel good cause I'm sure it does but to make someone believe they need it is a form of taking advantage of the person, a person can just vent to release not "I'm feeling down and stressed, can you suck my dick" perhaps it's a weird mindset but what can I say I'm not lying lol

[MementoMori777]

Form of*

[chrissykerdock]

but it's not taking advantage of a man by giving him a blowjob

[MementoMori777]

No that's not what I said, you didn't read what I said hm?

[chrissykerdock]

i did and i don't think it's taking advantage

[MementoMori777]

Then agree to disagree I guess

[chrissykerdock]

nobody ever turned me down for a blowjob

[MementoMori777]

Then you met the wrong people, people that don't have your well being in mind.

[chrissykerdock]

that's bullshit... you said taking advantage of and that's not it

[MementoMori777]

I see it that way, it's one thing if they are in a relationship or married and perhaps make love to each other but a guy with just lustful intentions is taking advantage of the woman in my opinion.

[chrissykerdock]

no you reversed it... but the girl isn't taking advantage

[MementoMori777]

Not in the situation she isn't, doesn't mean it's not possible for a woman to take advantage of a man but in this situation it's the guy using the woman

[chrissykerdock]

what's wrong with that if she's willing to

[MementoMori777]

She might be willing too but a girl a lot of the times seem to be blind to the idea of being taken advantage of, unless they know and they just don't care but that's a completely different topic there, my point is that it's wrong cause even if she is willing too, there's no form of attachment there and at the end of the day the intentions is for sexual pleasure, it's wrong to me, it's an opinion, there's no right answer really, you can believe it's not when I can believe it is.

[chrissykerdock]

there's such a thing as kindness... plus when your asked to give a blowjob it's definitely a compliement and flattery

[MementoMori777]

Not in my eyes, to me it seems like a form of greed for sexual pleasure, feeding urges, it's why I never agreed with the idea of asking for blowjobs which is normally what I'm talking about cause no girl ever has walked up to someone and asked to give a blow job, it's usually asked, at the very least they can return the favor and give the woman some oral, something just rubs me off wrong about it, not quite sure what it is but it is what it is.

[Mmmariaxc]

@mementomori777 have no idea how much pleasure you can get from giving head if you think it’s taking advantage.

[MementoMori777]

It's the lack of emotions or love that really bothers me, that's the simple way of putting it, the world is broken, then people wonder why relationships don't last, cause people think all the lust is the way of keeping a rationship alive.

[chrissykerdock]

no guys seldom return the favor and i don't ask them either... usaully it's something like can you give me a blowjob or do you give head... but a girl isn't ever taking advantage of a guy when that happens

[MementoMori777]

You gotta reread, that's not what I'm saying and I've corrected you like 3 times on that already

[chrissykerdock]

there isn't any relationship with a random blowjob... sure it's for the man's pleasure but if the girl is willing there's nothing wrong with that

[chrissykerdock]

and i continue to disagree

[MementoMori777]

To you perhaps, I guess it all depends on how you want to live, if you chase lust over love then I guess it has a different outcome, I don't understand how y'all can live knowing that the only way men look at y'all is for sex, seems like a road with a dead end, personally of course

[chrissykerdock]

i see it as someone finds you hot you give him a favor... why do you have to see it as forever

[MementoMori777]

What about when you are old and no longer hot tho? Lol

[MementoMori777]

Do you not think of your happiness in your future?

[MementoMori777]

After all that future becomes your present and will all this even matter then?

[chrissykerdock]

that's the beauty of it... i remember who i gave oral sex to and feel good about it and thinking of giving them... how i felt emotionally... and their faces looked after they cum etc etc... what i wore where i gave them... basically it's beautiful experiences.

[chrissykerdock]

i don't think any man or boy when i was 14... i don't think any of them felt guilty

[MementoMori777]

I guess if that's enough for you then I don't know what to tell you, that's what makes us different I guess, personally, and obviously not because they don't think of the outcomes, they just think of busting a nut, no offense but I really hope you find a better life then putting peoples sexual pleasures over yourself.

[MementoMori777]

I hope you experience actual love and I honestly believe that moment that you do, the guilt will kick in.

[chrissykerdock]

i'm human i want guys to bust a nut for me,,, it makes life exciting... i like to wear a miniskirt that's short turn some heads... and then give head... it's something i'm interested in and love to do... actually i love wearing micro miniskirts... believe me if you wear one of those things become assumed.

[MementoMori777]

Whatever floats your boat I guess

[chrissykerdock]

at least i'm not taking advantage of anyone

[MementoMori777]

I guess that's one good thing. Congrats I guess 😂

[TallAnon]

There's lots of people who regrets having sex, especially when religious, when it's their first time, when the person they were with ended up being someone they didn't like later on, etc. Lots of reasons for regrets.

[MementoMori777]

Understandable, seems like it doesn't exist anymore tho

[NathanDavis]

I've neve regretted love in this form before...

no reasons to

[MementoMori777]

Fair enough

[katiesmuff]

I'm quite sure there has been many regrets after a night of fucking.

[MementoMori777]

Lol.

[KansasX]

I regret my first time as I was naive and the guy only wanted to get in my pants. And I regret another time because he was older and he lied about his age.

[MementoMori777]

That's messed up but fair enough

[KansasX]

I think we all have regrets when it comes to sex. Even people who wait until marriage sometimes regret that they didn't have sex with another before marriage.

[MementoMori777]

Probably but I think that all depends

[KansasX]

that's why I added the word "sometimes." I am really close to five girls, known three of them since high school, and they all regrets. And some of us have shared the same guy but didn't know it until later on. It's life.

[MementoMori777]

Oof lol

[Gagname]

@KansasX How old was the older guy that lied about his age, and how old were you then?

[Labokachulaa]

When I first lost my virginity, I felt regret because I knew I wasn't married and my parents were super religious.. Now, I'm glad that I had the experience. Lol

[SashaHa]

I’m sure drunk people who cheated regret it cx

[MementoMori777]

Perhaps but these people can't just blame the alcohol lol

[SashaHa]

Yea and just cause they like sex doesn’t mean they don’t regret doing it c:

[MementoMori777]

That's true, fair enough, thanks for the response Sasha

[SashaHa]

Sure ❤️ c:

[Cuminginside]

If you have to get drunk to do some cheating then you're cheating yourself.

[AsaKyo]

I'm sure whores do later on down the road

[MementoMori777]

If they decide to change their ways then perhaps

[Twalli]

People can regret how they approach it. Those that engage in casual sex can regret that they did it.

[MementoMori777]

That makes sense lol

[In_Trance]

What kind of guilt?

[MementoMori777]

Any form of guilt 😂

[In_Trance]

Yea, i got that part From what?

[MementoMori777]

For having sex

[Alliegal]

Often what is seductive ends up being sick and sad

[yourfavsagittarius]

i regret most of my sexual intercourse because i either was under the influence of alcohol, waking up the next morning thinking wtf that dude was mid 😂 or shouldn’t have cheated on him with someone else

[MementoMori777]

Understandable, so you never think before you have sex? 🙃

[MementoMori777]

I hope that didn't come out harsh

[yourfavsagittarius]

nah your good haha but i do think obviously when planning on hanging out with them, the only problem when i don’t think is drinking then i do stupid stuff plus it’s hard when i can’t fight the urge of my horniness 😭

[MementoMori777]

Have you ever tried fighting the urges? Be honest 😂

[MementoMori777]

Where you are like "no I won't do it" or you are like "fuck it", "it's going down tonight" or "I know how this is gonna end"

[yourfavsagittarius]

my urges won 😂 when i’m drunk i don’t think that’s why lol at the moment my feelings just take over so yeah more like a "it’s going down tonight fuck it”

[MementoMori777]

And I'm assuming not drinking isn't an option 🤣

[yourfavsagittarius]

everything is more exciting and fun with alcohol 😉

[MementoMori777]

That all depends, I feel like alcohol can numb some parts you won't want to miss or that youd want to remember but I guess in your situations you wouldn't want to remember anything lol

[Anonymous]

When you give something so intimate to a guy and then he treats you like shit later, you wonder why you did it in the first place. It’s easy to have regrets.

[MementoMori777]

Fair enough