Is sexual tension real?

I mean how legit is it? Lmao or is it just an excuse to be pervy?

Have you ever been in a situation like that? What happened? Tell me everything, I'm nosy af. 🙂🙂🙂







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Most Helpful Girls

  • My marriage (+ our relationship preceding it) has been 17+ years of basically non-stop sexual tension. And oh yessss what a beautiful thing it is.

    I write little anecdotes from our marriage on here so much that I'm sure everyone is sick of seeing them, but... this post (girl mho + links) captures the essence more than adequately:
    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2170898-parents-who-have-a-sex-life-still-do-you-re-kids-know-you-still-have

    And even when we can't get at each other (... with three kids there's a lot of waiting), we're still always going back and forth with messages like this:
    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2199374-what-s-the-most-teasing-sexy-message-you-ever-got-from-boyfriend-or

    Fuck yeah the tension is real.

    If it ever started dying off, and we slipped into being one of those "routine" and "comfortable" couples... I would die, inside. I'd literally rather be dead. Dead.

    • Dang ur relationship goals

    • Thank you bb. <3 It *is* actual EFFORT to keep a marriage this hot... but, it's the most addictive, most euphoric kind of "effort" imaginable. A lot of people think "putting effort into yr marriage" is something that doesn't need to happen until the flames have already started to die down, and/or until there are already "problems". Those people are stupid. You keep a car running by performing regular maintenance on it while it's still running perfectly. Marriages aren't any different.

    • Omg I've always literally wanted a marriage like that. It's like you're me but in you form. 😂❤️ #inspired

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  • There are two sides of - it is real if you want to please your partner every-time even if you are not in good mood or passing through a difficult period - say period and your partner is not understanding the real situation. If your partner understand you and support you - it is always pleasant and enjoyable. It was not tension for me even for the first time. Me and my man had decided to keep our virginity till marriage. After about a week of our marriage, our parents went for a pilgrimage for a week, allowing us home alone. We had talked about sex before marriage and planned for the first time. We enjoyed sex at this time - in full light of day - undressing each other and doing everything we were expecting. We are supporting each other and always enjoying it at the best without any tension, because we both understand each other and try to satisfy our partner the most.

  • yes, of course it is.
    I've been in countless situations with high sexual tension. Mostly involving my boyfriend.

    What did I do in circumstances like that? Well... sometimes, just ignore it and wait till we get home. Other times, we'll head to an empty classroom/bathroom on the top floor of one of the buildings on campus and take care of the issue. That's if we're on campus. If not and we're driving somewhere or something, I'll tell him to pull to the side and I'll proceed to finish him off orally/just go at it in the car. ;)

    • interesting and romantic

    • @manmadha not sure if that's sarcastic or not but... doing things like that are pretty romantic in my books, believe it or not. I wouldn't get up to shenanigans like that if I didn't care for the person a lot, in addition to there being a lot of sexual tension. 😏

Most Helpful Guys

  • Teens normally have it. It is normally where they both like each other but are scared to admit it or they are both to shy to talk to each other.
    An example is like when me and my friend that I liked went to the movies and she sat next to me. During the movie she put her hand on the hand rest and moved her fingers every once in a while to get my attention. So that I would put my hand on hers. I wanted to but was to shy to do it. I lifted my hand to do it but I froze with my hand in the air scared that it was not what she wanted. She noticed and leaned over and told me to go ahead so I did leave my hand on hers.

  • " Tell me everything, I'm nosy af"
    Look at you trying to be pervy, I'm not falling for your plan lol

    • I'm just a nosy person in general lmao I want to know everything

    • What's your ethnicity btw?

    • Guess.

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  • Yes, it's real. It's when two people want to fuck but are still "in the closet" so to speak.

    • THAT is how I would define Sexual "Tension". I get a feeling that the question is about Sexual "Frustration" though but the word "Tension" was used instead. Just my humble opinion.

  • Oh it's real.

    I've had sexual tension so intense that I actually thought I was going to burst into flames. Once when I was texting this guy I was into, I was tempted to do uh... naughty things but I didn't. The second time was when I had my boyfriend over when we had been together for a month or two and we were on my bed watching a horror movie. He kept trying to "wrestle" with me and we where just teasing each other hard and uh, yeah I could have cut that tension with a knife.

  • Yeah with a male friend, but it never happened. His ex from four years ago came back into the picture as we were getting closer and he went back to her. It sucks because I really liked the guy but at the same time I'm kind of relieved it didn't happen lol.

  • Hell yes. Nothing every happened, cuz he was dumb as shit and would get gnarly roid rage, sweet one second and butt hurt and pissy the next. But we'd be on opposite sides of a room and my friend could feel the tension between us

  • I'm quite convinced it's 100% genuine, it's just a question of hormones flowing.
    You can't stop it, it's nature at work!

  • On a scale of one to 12 it is 10/12 legitimacy. Have I been in a situation where I feel sexual tension? Nope. I attempt to restrain myself from doing anything sexual, thoughts + desire included.

    • I just realized we're snapchat best friends LOL

    • Lmao prob cause of Abdul

    • Lol ya you both love being rude to me

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  • of course it's real. I feel it when i "accidently" bump into my crush at school.

  • It is.

  • Is this a trick question?

    • Maybe 😈

  • Real or not real depends on how you see the situation , but some tension is there.

  • I've definitely felt it.

  • You start rubbing the inside of her thigh and you can physically see her tension start to build.

  • It can be real or just a wish.

  • Yeah, it's real for people who experience sexual attraction/desire. "Sexual tension is a social phenomenon that occurs when two individuals interact and one or both feel sexual desire, but the consummation is postponed or never happens." I don't think it's an excuse to be pervy, it's all just natural feelings most people have. I never felt sexual tension and I will never know what it feels like. It's just a textbook definition for me lol.

  • Yes, sexual tension is a thing. But it's more of a problem if both people are afraid to go all the way. That happened with a girl I knew for a while, but I never initiated anything.
    I don't think it's an excuse to be pervy.

  • The tension is REAL BP! :D

  • Never experienced it. No women as ever got her "pants wet" over me and you can see it from a mile away.

  • it's real

  • F*** yeah it is. Any obscured reference I make to horny girls gets construed as sexual. I once talked dirty to a girl with scripture from the Bible... the f***ing Bible!! "And he shall smell her garden". I would meme (custom) the s*** out of them, it's symbollic like I'm f***ing their mind with my intellect

    • S***, sometimes, I don't even use much finesse. If she gets too s*** testy, I just start being bluntly posessive. Some short girl told me I was mean about making a truthful comment and I replied: "Me: I'm just trying to be honest and help. Don't give me lip Her: I will Me: Can your lip even reach my d*** on your knees? Her: Yes

  • Yes OMG the the first time I danced with my boyfriend... there was so much sexual tension... I was completely shocked at how hot he was.

    • Lmao damn that's hawt

    • Yeah his confidence was so hot.

    • Omg I love a confident man. They are everything.

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