Is she going to have sex with him?

Question

Imagine this scenario -

She is married.

She started talking about sexual stuff with her male best friend. Just sharing their sex life and their fantasies.

Soon it turned into sexting. Talking about doing things with each other. really really sexually explicit and dirty things.

All this time they both kept saying to each other that they are not gonna do anything in real.

Now she started sharing some sexy pics with him. Doing things he told her to do.

They talk about not being interested in doing anything in real but sometimes they talk in details about how they want their first time to be.

Do you think eventually they would do it?

TCredo · Accepted Answer

The potential is there and if circumstances were just right (such as nobody else around and maybe after a few drinks...) but I will say from personal experience that it is possible to not go further.

For example, I had something going on similar to what you described with a female friend (both of us married, friends with spouses etc) and after awhile we decided it was best to stop as the desire was getting to a point that if given the opportunity, we might actually do it. And while I have no doubt it would have been awesome, the resulting relationship carnage would have been bad for everyone.

SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

She's already cheating by sexting. So it doesn't even really matter if she'd go through with it. She's guilty already. She's already a cheater. Why would she suddenly develop a conscience. If she's ok with going behind this guys back and sexting with her friend, then sure... I'd assume she'd go behind his back and go through with it. She's selfish, she's disloyal, and yea, that's exactly the kind of person who cheats. So I guess it's a matter of an untrustworthy woman is untrustworthy. Pretty simple actually.
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Alessa13 · Accepted Answer

Nothing is certain it is possible they will but at the same time they might like this sexy talk & pics, no plans to go any further. It only takes one to say no to stop from going further.

BrookeS · Accepted Answer

No, they are just coworkers that ended up on the subject once when they were on lunch break. Nothing will happen between them.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

How long have you been married? Do you have children as a result of the marriage? Has your husband been faithful to you?

SnowedIn · Answer

Maybe but I doubt it.

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

In my experience, a married woman who sexts with you and lives nearby is very close to going to bed with you. That’s not always a good indication with a single woman, but it seems to me that the slope is more slippery with married women. Or something.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I think it is heading that way. All this sexual tension means they will eventually need a release.

MementoMori777 · Answer

Not if she sticks to what she said, I guess words mean nothing nowadays so perhaps

AviatorTom · Answer

They probably won't do it. Getting this far without doing it most likely means that they are both satisfied with the sexual flirting, nothing more. It wouldn't surprise me, though, if the next step would be a video chat where they masturbate for each other.

DJB72 · Answer

Probably. There's something fundamental missing in her marriage for her to be doing that in the first place

talka20 · Answer

Yeah big potential is there n big risk... the first time u shared this i told u its gonn be more n more... now u see things are going further... before there were no pics... now there are pics involved... so yes soon or later most probably things will get physical

Sleeper07 · Answer

Tell the husband. It would be immoral not to. Yes it's going to happen. No they're not best friends, they're so obviously more than just friends. Men and women cannot be friends.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, and thy will probably do it this weekend.

TaureanBull81 · Answer

If they meet up face to face in this scenario, there's a high probability that they'll act out their dirty thoughts and fantasies together 😉

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Just so it she knows she wants it just do it

Friendlybro79 · Answer

This could go either way but they are in the danger zone for sure. Is this you or someone you know?

AmeerX · Answer

No nothing like this is going to happen for real

Rizwan_khan · Answer

It may have greater possibility to have sex between them because stuff like this are not shared to everyone so mostly girl shared this stuff those person who they might have chance of sex and they don't regret for doing that. And in today's ear marrige is on only papers 90% married couple have affair once in life.

kellytheman · Answer

I am gonna say no but there is a limit if they start pleasuring themselves during sexting or showing very explicit videos they might they would do it. It seems they both would have a understanding of not acting on there urges and they just like to fantasize about each other.