Is something wrong with me - I have a sexual fantasy of wanting to be kidnapped?

I don't know I’m very submissive and I know it’s bad but I have a sexual fantasy about it? It’s weird? Is something wrong with me? Not by like a person I found unattractive though like with someone who’s attractive.
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  • There's nothing wrong with you at all. People fantasize about all kinds of things that they wouldn't actually want for real. Common female fantasies are rape or being taken by monsters like vampires or werewolves.

    Fantasies and just fantasies. They're like being entertained by things in movies that we would abhor in real life.

    Fantasies indicate good imagination. And good imagination indicates intelligence and often good mental health. It's also important to note that we are in control of our fantasies. We make them safe and pleasurable. You, yourself said that your kidnapper would be handsome.

    I think that women, in particular, who are drawn to bodice ripper novels and fantasies about being taken against their will are simply turned on by the thought of being dominated and ravished by a big, strong, virile male who is driven wild with uncontrollable desire.

    Those fantasies are thrilling. It's like being terrified by going on an adrenaline pumping roller coaster. In the fantasies, the woman are conflicted. They know what is happening is wrong and feel intense emotions like fear, horror, excitement and desire.

    And although many women crave those kind of sexual thrills in real life, they also want to trust that they won't be harmed.

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  • This is a fairly common fantasy. It's not bad or weird to fantasize about something like that. Please feel free to PM me if you wish.

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  • Sounds like a very feminist fantasy. :)

  • That is not all that uncommon of a fantasy.
    Lots of porn movies with that theme.

  • That's not an unusual fantasy.

  • I've heard this from a lot of women. Totally normal.

  • no its a kink i have a few kinks but they won't happen

  • Believe it or not but that fantasy is quite common even for guys. Just remember reality is not the same as a fantasy

  • Sounds like something for a role play fantasy.

  • Normal fantasy

  • Nothing is wrong with you. Women have submissive fantasies that cannot be safely fulfilled.