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Is spooning in bed without sex common, or do you always have sex?

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  • I think it’s pretty common. My husband and I always fall asleep spooning, it doesn’t matter if we had sex before that or not. I love it, it’s so nice to be held real close by him. Sometimes we turn around and I hold him.

    We usually talk about our day and what we’re doing the next day, before falling asleep.

    • So during spooning you both chat about thing!

    • Yes! Helps us connect at the end of the night.

  • Yes, i think it is

Most Helpful Guys

  • I’m not sure how common it is, but I do it all the time because fall asleep like that, haha.


    But in terms of sex, it’s pretty comfy and relaxing to do afterwards.


    Usually, with my significant other, we sort of just toggle between the two like cuddles, sex, more cuddles.

  • Sometimes it's after sex. I've never had a woman spoon me who didn't start grinding against me to get me worked up, so there's always been sex in the past, though academically I could imagine that somewhere in the world there exists a situation where that would not happen.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Very common in my bed!

  • I think it is yes. Being intimate doesn't always have to lead to sex, sometimes it's just nice to lay and relax in bed with a partner, even if that's spooning. I've never been in a relationship before though.

  • My wife likes to be the little spoon and snuggle has ass up against me with my arm around her when we go to sleep.

  • We do that most nights, sometimes it leads to sex but on others we just spoon. I love it. It makes me feel so loved.

    • Thanks for opinion

  • usually sex

    • Agree! Love this position Rachel! Nothing better than being lazy and spooning and winding down while laying behind her sexy ass and wrapping my arm around her, slowly massaging her clit while kissing her back and neck and slowly penetrating her kitty from behind!

    • @Mr1derful Is spooning in bed without sex common, or do you always have sex?

  • We spent every night as we go to sleep, regardless of sex.

  • There’s a huge comfort in big spoon little spoon. It doesn’t even have to be sexual. I think it’s more so that scoop feeling with the arm wrap around.

  • Spooning is just nice. It's a nightly occurrence. Sometimes, it leads to sex, sometimes it's just a wonderful, deep sleep.

  • Not always about sex, I like spooning on its own. Great way to snuggle and talk about your day.

  • Spooning is nice whether it leads to sex or not

  • COMMON.

  • Nope, spooning to sleep is common!

  • Usually 4 out of 5 times we have sex

  • Sometimes we do sometimes we don't

  • When I had a girlfriend we'd usually fuck 3 or 4 times a week but we always slept intertwined.

  • Very common.

  • Always sex.

  • Depends on the day.

  • We always have the sex.

  • Sure it’s common and fine but I’d be lying if it didn’t lead to more. I do love being the big spoon, and wrapping my arm around her and slowly rubbing her clit while penetrating nice and slow from behind and she squeezes tighter!

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