Ridiculous! The man needs to do his homework. The chances of a woman being able to squirt can be as low as 10 percent. Not everyone can do it. And if we can... Not every man can get us to. And if we are put under demandful stress we won't. The man needs to chill he's gonna hurt you.
I can squirt but Only 2 men have managed to do it for me. When I discovered I could I didn't understand at first what I was doing. I was horrified. I thought I peed the bed. Once I realized what it was and the man insisted it was sexy not gross I relaxed and with this man it happened a lot... But for me it got rather troublesome since im the one who does the laundry. Anyways I later explored it on my own. I have figured out what part of me needs to be stimulated to do it but honestly I avoid it when tending to myself. Who wants extra laundry to do... Wet sheets or towels 🤭. Anyhow only one other guy has done it for me and Sure the men get a kick out of it but for me I don't need it to enjoy an orgasm. If you aren't comfortable with it or you like some many other women are not able to do it tell him to quit... Before he leaves you sore.
I actually think that word, "fetish" should be stricken from the English language. lol
Long story, but I was battling a couple of guys about this a few days ago. Just battling over the definition of what a fetish is.
In your situation, I would absolutely call this a fetish, and that's in no way a bad thing.
There's a really fun Playboy series that are fun to watch. The premise is that on each episode a new couple would go to the Playboy mansion to try swinging for the first time. Sometimes it was a good thing, and sometimes it was a bad thing.
But on one episode, a husband told the crowd that he has mastered this technique, and asked for a volunteer. Well, that wasn't hard to find one.
One of the wives volunteered, and sure enough, he made her squirt. lol
Well I say fetish because that's what he seems focused on. We've talked about the things I like and created scenarios but when we're together he seems to want to only make me squirt. And I feel really pressured!
I totally understand, and I met a woman online, and she had the same problem. It was not about squirting, but this guy wanted to do something else with her. She agreed to do it, because he wanted it. But then he wanted this every time, and it didn't sit well with her. She wanted other things, but he was fixated on what he wanted. If this would have been an occasional thing, she would be OK with it, but it was his fixation. She asked me for my advice , but I really had no advice. I hate to tell people to break up, so I just don't go there. I'm more about just listening, because that can be a good thing.
Well I'm going to go with the tell him what I like and want until it sticks... He has woken me up for sexy chat. So I'm telling him what I liked that he did and putting in things I "think" he did that I liked. Hopefully it will stick!
Like deep throating, a fixation on "squirting" is another porn-related antic. Squirting is the incidental interruption of bladder control from arousal or orgasm. Sure, it can contain a bit more chemistry, but it is almost entirely pee. I have experienced this from time to time, particularly during cunnilingus and it is not important to me one way or another. But if he INSISTS on it happening, just don't pee before fingering and then appease him with a brief release. Don't let it suppress your sexual relationship.
Can he cum without you squirting.
can you blow him and he cums?
it’s not a fetish, he’s just watched too much porn and has a limited real life experience.
Also it’s dodgy has it can make sex all about that and nothing else.
When I give him a blow job. He rushes to cum. But I've been holding off when he pumps faster, to slow him down and prolong the experience. Sexually he's a lot more rougher than I'm used to. Like slapping my nipples. He's yet to have gone down on me. I think he's a little shy. He's so far been focusing on none penetrative sex.
Sounds like he is very inexperienced and does not have a clue about consent
Well that may be true. I don't want to claim he's a virgin. But he lives at home with his parents. He's 35 and Indian.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Yes it seems like a fetish, not many guys care so much about that.
If you're talking about the projectile squirting, most women can't do that. What you see in porn is literally urine 9 times out of 10.
learn it you can do it! no need to take extra pressure.
Squirting is just pee so just pee on him to make him happy
That's a silly thing to do... I'd rather not do it
Well that's what squirting is for women - them losing control of their bowels and pissing themselves
I don't think its a fetish.
It comes naturally for me, so I don't consider it a fetish.
Does it happen every time you masturbate?
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