Is talking about sex with so, to friends a bad thing?

Question

So me and my mate have had a few discussions about this as we've shared a lot of our sexual life with each other. I know a lot of people say it's disrespectful and that I wouldn't like it if the shoe was on the other foot.

But honestly it wouldn't bother me, depending on what's being shared. Personally whenever I've talked about sex (barring talking about first times, since that was in incredible detail). Are there any new positions you tried, was it good, did you end up getting off, how long was it. If I was in the vicinity of a girl who has a bit more experience I might ask a few questions, he really freaked me out is this normal, he didn't want to do this, I tried this new thing and I felt like I sucked at it have you got any tips for my next time, have you ever done xyz.

For the most part though me talk about sex in general to each other, things we've tried, things we haven't, things that might make the things we've done every better in future. None of this is malicious by any means and none of the discussions have ever led to belittling or teasing about the partner.

The things I've shared in the past outside of the above, is normally a pic of the guy and maybe a rough estimate of d size.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

The last time I checked we were in a relationship, just the two of us. Not her plus her friends. That stays between us. I’m not going to go talk to my boys about how my girls swallows my load while sticking my finger in her ass n pussy at the same time. Yes I know I said what we do sometimes but I’m anon so don’t matter. But no that’s between us.

kellytheman · Accepted Answer

When I talk to friends (guy and girls) about we just talk from experiences and we don’t talk about every juicy detail or give out names. We might say something like “ I went out with goth girl and she was a freak in bed” or “ I went this short guy but he had a huge penis” stuff like that.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don’t think so, me and my friend are virgins but our other friend isn’t. She tells us so much and gives us advice.

RobT312 · Answer

Within limits I think it’s healthy to talk about things with friends

patrick994 · Answer

You can talk, but always within limits, without having to specify too many things, you can talk in a general way

exitseven · Answer

Yes, it should be something private between two people.

Andres77 · Answer

Share what you’re comfortable with. If he can’t handle your past then he can’t handle you

MysticDevice · Answer

I mean, you got to have at least that one person you can tell your experiences to.

Sunnybeach123 · Answer

I think it's fine. Why not?

swettannie · Answer

that's not a bad things at all

OddBeMe · Answer

If it is, it’s a bad relationship. Not a bad thing to do.

Jerre · Answer

I don’t mind talking about sex with girls. Sometimes our chat becomes so sexual, we start feeling each other. Once she feels my boner, she wants to have sex. I oblige.