Guys, Is talking dirty and role playing too much in a relationship?

My boyfriend doesn’t like to role play or let me talk dirty he just tells me to moan and he tells me doesn’t wanna act. Please help me with

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  • It will be best to find a way that works for both of you. Talking dirty can feel a bit ridiculous, depending on how it's done. Still, I think every guy has some things you can say that turn him on. For example, a guy who has a possesive side to him will like it when you ask him to take you or that you "belong to him", to name only one idea. Just do not do too much talking in one go, but find something that gets him hot.
    Of course, you can also talk about it in a quiet moment. I think it would be a bit of a shame to confine a talkative lady to moaning only.

    He can also play along once in a while. For example, I find it odd if a woman feels like a "bad girl" for sex and wants to be spanked for that. Still I can play along. With time he may get to like some of what you like. "Roleplay" opens lots of possibilities, too, and he may have some fantasies that he has not yet shared with anyone.

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  • Don't like "role playing' but one girlfriend I had in my 20's did like dirty talk, and we both liked it. She told me later, with other guys, that they did not "know how" to talk dirty during or before sex... guess it has to be something that comes naturally with couples, OR NOT.

    • I agree…I told him I was sorry I was this way

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  • It should include what both of you enjoy. I suggest you tell him what want and to at least try it.

  • No thats fine that you wanna do that, but it sounds like you 2 aren't similar enough to date.

  • It's not gonna work, just run, you'll eventually want a kinkier partner.

    People say "sex doesn't matter in a real relationship" which is the worst advice ever.

    Eventually when the sexual chemistry dries up, it can matter a WHOLE LOT and even break the union when one of the two cheats.

  • What do you call role-play

    • I wanted to do some stuff I can’t say out loud

  • He doesn’t want to beat around the bush and just in a hurry.. I love roleplay to wet my appetite

    • I love it too!!!

    • What do you like to roleplay?

    • Schoolgirl is my favorite, by the way.

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  • Well you can't force him to do what you want. That would be called rape. But, what you can do is tell him how you feel about him not doing what you want.

    If he's still not going to do it, then you need to find someone who's a little more open to it

  • Love it. I don’t role play a lot, but I do like to talk dirty. Especially throughout the day.

    • It comes in handy throughout the day

  • My kind of a guy. I am the same. I find it foolish. Just show it in your face or just moan, those are enough for me

    • That’s what he wants he said I’m enough we don’t need to pretend or do anything crazy just fucking

  • I think he is missing the good stuff. But that's me.

    • Haha same 😝

  • Nope. Most of us are stuck in such relationships. Good luck.

    • Where not enough is going on and difficult to talk and play.

    • Exactly

    • I meant yes it is too much

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