Is the anticipation better than the physical act for you?

[KatherineJ]

Is it more enjoyable thinking about what’s about to happen, or the actual act?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Guess they depends if the ace itself measures up... Anticipate and then not good sex, then it would be a let down, anticipate and the sex is really good then the sex itself exceeds the anticipation...

[KatherineJ]

@brainsbeforebeauty yeah, true. Sometimes the anticipation of getting some 🍆 is far better than the reality.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

And sometimes the sex is so much better

[KatherineJ]

@brainsbeforebeauty yep. Penis butter and coochie cream. 🤣

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Hahahahaha see can't get penis butter from anticipation😂😂😂 maybe coochie cream but that's always better with some good penis butter to compliment it😂😂 and I've heard penis butter doesn't stick to the roof of your mouth like peanut butter does 😂😂😂

[KatherineJ]

@brainsbeforebeauty yeah, when it’s anticipation, the coochie cream definitely appears, regardless of if I get “there” or not. The Penis Butter doesn’t stick, obviously, but the aftertaste. 🤣

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Well yeah that way peanut butter is better🤣

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Thanks for mh

[Elliegirl]

The actual act is usually better, but it’s never quite as good without the anticipation.

[KatherineJ]

@elliegirl I don’t know about you, but without the anticipation getting things “ready”, the act isn’t going to happen. (OUCH)

[Elliegirl]

@KatherineJ totally. Foreplay is a must! I was thinking more like anticipation throughout the day of knowing what’s in store for the night.

[KatherineJ]

@elliegirl that’s a different question! I’m referring to when you and your husband are together and you both know that something is about to happen. Him getting excited, you getting excited.

[Elliegirl]

@KatherineJ gotcha. That anticipation is amazing!

[KatherineJ]

@elliegirl it really is. Like “oooh, I think that thing wants some attention”.

[Elliegirl]

@KatherineJ yes! And those lusty looks he gives me. Omg! Makes me feel so sexy and desired!

[KatherineJ]

@elliegirl you mean the look like he wants to impale you? Yep, lovely

[Elliegirl]

@KatherineJ that’s the look!

[KatherineJ]

@elliegirl I love when mine gives me that look.

[Sangita93]

Anticipation can make the whole thing sweeter. When you wait, you build up sexual tension and fantasies, which can make the whole thing way more fun. One big loss of moving to sex too quickly is that you do not get the excitement of anticipating it. Every relationship moves at its own pace, and the most optimal time you should have sex is whenever you are both comfortable with it. I and my husband had promised to keep our virginity till marriage, and help each other for it. It gives you more time to know each other's character. Having sex early can put you in a vulnerable position. You will have a better idea of what you both like. Even if you are not having sex with someone, you should feel free to talk about it. The longer you wait to have sex with your partner, the more you can have conversations about your sexual preferences, limits, kinks, and fantasies. Waiting for sex may be difficult at times, but building up the anticipation before going all the way with someone can make it even better. When you wait, you build up sexual tension and fantasies for both, which can make the whole thing way more fun. Sex can deepen a bond that you have already created. Sex can be a powerful and emotional act that can bond you and your partner. When you wait to have an emotional connection with that person and then have sex, it can be a way to bring you two even closer. Waiting to have sex does not mean that you can not do other physical acts. It can allow you to get really good at kissing, foreplay, and other affectionate acts that people often gloss over while getting to the "main event." By waiting to have sex, you allow yourself the opportunity to decide if he / she can truly build a long-term, meaningful connection with you and be a worthy and committed partner. People mistakenly search for love, satisfaction, and security in sex when, in fact, sex should be a natural result of a loving, secure, and satisfying relationship.

[loves2learn]

Thinking about what’s going to happen warms me up for the actual act and makes it that much better.

[HugoThe2nd]

No, the act is better for me.
But I do like the anticipation, or rather, I like feeling desired, so even prolonged flirt and sexual tension by themselves can be enjoyable things for me.
I wouldn't mind engaging in the preceding activities even if the subsequent one wasn't the end goal.

[weysally]

to me there are four,
1/ the thinking about what may happen
2/ all the foreplay,
3/ the physical act its self
4/ the after play and the quietening down,

[ChrisMaster69]

I can imagine for some girls the anticipation has unfortunately been better than the real thing.

picture the scene, a girl meets a guy, he sells himself as an Alpha Male (😂) with a huge love machine able to last for ours and a tongue he can lick his eye brows with, a real ladies man.

they get home, she’s gagging almost dripping for what lies ahead.

they get to bed, they are naked.

then she realises what she smelt earlier on, was not dodgy aftershave, it was bullshit, she’s only gone and pulled a Blue Anon Virgin with a micro penis that lasts 30 seconds and blames her for being too sexy.

[KatherineJ]

Ouch! 😂

[Red_Arrow]

The act is far better than the dreaming.

[SnuffleMuffins]

I think they're both just as good. The anticipation builds up all this sexual tension and excitement and then the physical act is a release for all this built up sexual tension. Both parts feel so good! The only difference is that they're different stages in the same execution process. I feel like the more tension there is, the better the physical act will be.

[Jjpayne]

I will tell you that the tease is either better or at least equal

[exitseven]

No, but it is a close second.

[Guy_No]

The thrill of knowing what might happen is a real turn on, but the proof is in the pudding, so I'd rather have the night of passion 👌👌

[Browneye57]

Oh boy, you have a wild imagination, don't you?

[genericname85]

i think if the anticipation is better than the actual thing to you, you're either waiting too long, or your sex is trashy xD

[karaspara]

It has been both in the past to be honest

[jahaims]

Nope

[kellytheman]

I say the anticipation is better but the act of what happens makes it more intense than normally if there is no anticipation.

[warrenstone]

No. I don’t care to think about her wrapped around me, I just want her physically wrapped around me.

[COMMODOREII]

Actual act is better.

[KatherineJ]

Ok, why?

[COMMODOREII]

Because I'm sharing the experience with a girl

[KatherineJ]

But isn’t the anticipation exquisite?

[COMMODOREII]

Not really. More like a start but it fades away.

[KatherineJ]

But if it fades away, doesn’t that make the act less enjoyable?

[COMMODOREII]

No because in the act i can keep going. In the anticipation you never know if you are going to do the act or not and it often is a no so it goes away.

[ND4SPD31]

I think the actual act is way more enjoyable than the anticipation.

[JamieLoves]

No... both are usually different, but incredible!

[Jerre]

It is nice to think about the sexual act, but far, far better when I’m actually fucking. Nothing feels better than cum shooting through my cock.

[KatherineJ]

Not even because it’s sharing that part of yourself with your girl?

[Jerre]

I love sharing my cock with girls.

[KatherineJ]

Plural?

[Jerre]

Yes, plural. I am single and fuck 4-5 times a week.