Is the fact that I love rough sex intimidating for some guys?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I do like rough sex
That's one of the first questions I will ask a girl
And when she tells me rough sex
I just kind of shake my head yes ok

But what I find really strange is that foreplay will start start making out and start out in slow motion and work your way up to slow motion and deep

And there's been a couple girls that says go faster harder and I will say okay but I still go slow motion and push deep and about 5 minutes will go by and I can see the color of her cheeks has changed her eyes are open wide she's breathing harder and she's moving her hips with me and I can tell right then and there that it's time to go a fake go though.

And I will start to pick up speed and move her around a little bit and she will grab a hold of me rapper legs or arms around me and said don't go fast just keep going slow

I really believe that a lot of girls nowadays have not had anybody make love to them they've always just been pounded which is fine but I mean as a guy I want to make her come both ways in slow motion and deep and with a good hard pounding

jshm2 · Accepted Answer

No. It's just exhausting, hard work, for some.

They know they need to be creative, but in control. Which is not something most find easy when ball deep in someone, while whipping them like you are their pimp.

It's why only certain caliber of characters can get into BDSM, and of those only the darkest hearts get into masochism.

On the lighter side, people who talk about "rough" rarely know anything about it. It's just porn fantasy they have. In real life it's not as staged as you see in porn.

Most seem to think a few slaps on the bum class as "rough sex". When in fact it's more towards "call the ambulance, if you cannot make it to Accident and Emergency".

It's why orgies and BDSM clubs are not daily events - takes a long time to actually recover...

Samantha36 · Accepted Answer

Yes. Iv asked guys before to give it to me ruff and they don't feel comfortable with even spanking me. Having said that... one guy choked me, slapped me round the face and pulled some of my hair out. It scared me! Iv found out that what I actually mean by ruff sex is, take control, be forceful but don't hurt me. Make me take it, spank me hard and pull my hair. (Not pull it out).

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Well, many men don't have what it takes for that.

NamerOfStars · Answer

Um, under what circumstances are they finding out? Is this a "when we're about to have sex" conversation, or a "it just comes up naturally while we're talking" one? Because if it's the latter, it's FAR more likely that they're just put off by you bringing up something so personal so quickly.

Apple1996 · Answer

No I think that's normal

BadApple69 · Answer

Not intimidating but many guys don't want to do anything that they feel might hurt their girl. So it depends on how rough you are talking. I once I used handcuffs and they were too tight. It left marks on my girl's wrists. I felt really bad about it but she was absolutely fine with it. So what do you consider rough?

Billlewis · Answer

For those of us for whom it's intimidating, like myself, most of us knew we aren't worthy of you to begin with;)

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

I've had stitches twice from sex before. What are you calling rough?

pierre7i · Answer

Actually I would find that intimidating

To be completely honest, I cannot understand how some women love rough sex?

I guess I'm not aggressive enough sexually ! Firm sex, uninhibited sex, passionate sex, romantic sex, those are the sexual lovemaking 'variations' that I really love & enjoy.

But rough sex? It's not for me.

To each their own of course !

havingfun2023 · Answer

It's not something that I would be into. 😄so sure.

slatyb · Answer

Maybe. I would want to know what you meant by rough.

glennos89 · Answer

It doesn't intimidate met at all... it's more likely turning me on and tare you apart asap 🫦💯

Bricealan · Answer

My thought is that guys are intimidating by a woman they view as  liking sex too much!  I base that on knowing women that really like sex but tend to experiment around with other men on the side. I think most men are intimidated by that, not so much just rough sex

Anastasiya_25 · Answer

I love the rough sex and want them use me as they wants.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

That kind of thing doesn't intimidate me, but I would have to have a lot more trust and connection with you before having rough sex with you.

exitseven · Answer

I dont think it is. As long as there is not whips involved.

elizamichale1 · Answer

In my experience guys actually like tht

Joshydavid25 · Answer

For some maybe, if they don't like rough sex.. For many they'll think it's sexy til they actually get to it. It's definitely hard work since the man is doing most of it.

TaureanBull81 · Answer

It depends on the guy really.  What's your definition of rough sex @theanswerisyes?

tfan1 · Answer

Explain rough please.

stratford · Answer

How rough do you like it?

smilelots · Answer

I have no problems with rough sex, but it depends on how rough I will not hurt someone it’s not a turn on for me but a spanking pulling of the hair a little things like that as long as nobody is getting hurt can be exciting depending on who you’re with in the end, it’s all about pleasure or it’s supposed to be for me anyways giving and taking

kellytheman · Answer

No if anything it’s a turn on it means we can throw you around, pull your hair, pound your pussy as hard as we. can and know you love it. Guys love rough sex

AydenHazor · Answer

It's likely intimidating for some guys, while it will turn others on

DextroShade · Answer

It means you are likely unsuitable for LTR or marriage because people typically don't enjoy that stuff unless they have been fucked so many times that "vanilla" sex doesn't do it for them anymore.

Nifrayu · Answer

My ex girlfriend had a thing for spanking. It didn't intimidate me per say, but it was outside my comfort zone. I indulged her when she asked for it even though I didn't enjoy spanking her.

LavLavLuv · Answer

Not sure

boobliker · Answer

yes, it is not the best way to get started with a new partner. give it time to get underway then say harder

Twalli · Answer

I guess it would depend on how rough. I prefer not to restrain, asphyxiate, or draw blood.

Nigjt · Answer

Yes but not me I my self will make u come on with it. God Bless

Hanrej · Answer

Most likely. Sexpositive women tend to scare guys since they believe a woman like that will more likely cheat.

LoverOfBooty23 · Answer

Bring it on

Jerre · Answer

I would spank you with my cock if you get too rough

Strong_Warrior · Answer

Yes I like submissive girls like you. Good girl. I wish all girls be like that 👍🏽

brownup · Answer

The answer is yes

trexxx707 · Answer

Not for me most girls like rough sex or to be dominated

In_Trance · Answer

Probably not

andy530 · Answer

Probably not intimidating but it may not be something they are interested in. There are some guys who aren’t into it… I hear

nawtee_me · Answer

Probably since not all guys are into it.

Alex8736 · Answer

That is actually a good thing to have takes you from mild child to wild child 😁

LEGENDARY4200 · Answer

Can be. If there fairly new to it you're probably going to have to coax them into being rougher outta fear of herting you

MJtheCoach · Answer

Most guys especially, in the west are feminized, The only appear as a man, but they have a very low testosterone and they get hurt easily in all levels. It sounds pathetic saying it but this is the reality we live in.
You need to be more selective and picking masculine guys that don’t show off… and I’m not desperate. They’ll give you great sex too..

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msc545 · Answer

no...

bananathunder · Answer

not for me... I love that shit

Guido · Answer

For some maybe. Others like it. You just need to find a partner that likes what you like.

SunnyRS · Answer

It can be for some but not many.

abc--123 · Answer

Not at all it's a turn on

NeverGiveUp69 · Answer

God no! I love a woman who likes it rough

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I'm sure it is for guys that aren't into that sort of sex but for guys like me we love that

dolemite58 · Answer

why would a guy be intimidated by that? 😂

maroon_eyez · Answer

Intimidating nope, a turn on yess

eagle1951 · Answer

hmm intertresting.

jjj101010 · Answer

To some it may be

kareka · Answer

Sureee

YAsQuen · Answer

Yes it is. Which they are obvioulsy not allowed to say. They think ur hard to please sexually. So u automatically filter for players by doing that. No problem if u wanna get at that.

Kingcojack · Answer

I love it rough sex is the best

Lone_Wolf1974 · Answer

What do you consider rough sex?

SunnyHornyLove · Answer

It works for me. I find that hot

Anonymous · Answer

not me. Bend over make yourself useful, wench

Anonymous · Answer

It’s only off putting because we know that if we give you that, and you decided “…hmmm, I didn’t like the way he treated me for the past few weeks, I’m going to really fu*k his life up..” you can proceed to claim that the man physically and sexually assaulted you. And would have the marks to “prove” it even tho it would have been consensual. I damn sure never trust a woman to be honest when it comes to these things at times. Not saying sexual assault doesn’t happen and that all girls lying, that’s not what I’m saying. I’m just not going to put myself in a situation like that. It’s just wise to watch out for yourself as a man.

Anonymous · Answer

Intimidating.😆😆😆 That's like like a guy asking is a 2 inch penis too intimidating for you? It may be off-putting for some guys. But that doesn't make it intimidating.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes definitely. It depends on what sort of things your into when you say rough sex. But the idea is massively concerning for me as well I aren't someone who is comfortable with the rough stuff. And well the idea of doing it isn't fun for me and also very worrying if it you were to make a mistake about it.

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