Is there a girl you're totally in love with but never got?

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FunkyMonkee · Accepted Answer

Not at the moment. There were several. Susan Krumphardt but, I got switched to a new school in the 4th grade and lost all contact with her. Diane Rudl. we're still good friends but we never went beyond that. Emily Swank, she started going with a friend of mine then, after high school, broke up with him and went with another guy that she married. Haven't seen or heard from her since. Cheryl Hubbard I met the first day I started working at Cedar Point. We were both working at the Panther Pitch but she ended up going with a guy that looked like he modeled for those Beagle Nose glasses, the ones with the big nose and fake mustache and eyebrows that make you look like Groucho Marx. Jennifer, I don't recall her last name but she also worked at Cedar Point at the the Bear Hoopla. Funny thing is, she's FROM my town but I never saw her again after Cedar Point! Sheila Muse worked at a record store and resembled Loni Anderson. Amy Wrightmeyer moved in next door shortly after I got home from cedar Point. I came REAL close to getting her but, suddenly, she went goofy on me and accused me of making obscene phones calls to her late at night. That was impossible! she lived on the 2nd floor next door and I've never been up there so, how could I possibly get her number? She'd only been living there a couple months, if that so, her number WOULDN'T have been in the phone book! She vanished and I never saw her again. Maura, I can't recall her last name. She worked in a record store but, about a year later, she quit and I never saw her again. Jennifer Marcin, I went to college with her. She invited me to her place 3 times within the first year together but, she was dating my best friend so, I never made any moves on her. We were more like surrogate brother & sister. The most we ever did was get naked together at my place when we went skinny dipping in my pool. Liz Micich and I met on like in a chat room that was hosted by a company called, Gator and, the guy that owned it and who lived in Texas, had been spying on our conversations and scared Liz to death and stopped talking to me. I son found out that Gator was either spyware or some kind of virus so, I uninstalled it. Last I heard, she moved to New York. Nadejda "Hope" Moncheva, another one I met online via FB. She lives in Lovecjh, Bulgaria but we fell madly in love with each other and she was planning to come over here to be with me but, neither of us could afford the ticket and then her very abusive soon to be ex-hubby screwed over her computer, or something and we lost contact. I DID manage to contact her again a few months later but it was just a quick convo and we never heard from each other again. I'd still marry her if she was interested.

Fireguy17 · Accepted Answer

a couple in school, not sure if I was really in love with them, it may have been more like lust, but in my adult life yes there was one.
We had dated, the sex was great, but it just never seemed to go anywhere.
Then we started dating again, and it died off again.
We would see each other often, I would take her coffee after I was done with work, and sometimes add a bit of something amaretto to it, and tell her, she owned a dance studio and worked late, she was always happy to see me.
Years went by and nothing ever worked out.
I found out why later, she thought that I wanted to have kids, and she couldn't anymore.
I sure wish she had told me that because I couldn't have kids.
How ironic is that?
She got married to a really nice guy, rich, treats her well.
So for that I'm happy.
And for years I plowed their driveway in the winter, their house was close to a bunch of others I did.
She will always be the one that got away.

cheeky_starfish · Answer

Back in college when I was 19 there was this girl I really liked the moment I first saw her - it was like ‘love at first sight’, and getting to know her only made my feelings for her grow. I ended up asking her out, but what I didn’t realise is that she already had a boyfriend 😒 so that was it - after college we went our separate paths. Funnily enough I actually have her as a friend on Facebook now - she’s happily married with some other guy 🤷🏻‍♂️ 24 years later and I still wonder ‘what if’ about this girl.

Middleman · Answer

Yes a few and one of them I did actually ask out but got declined. Still friends with her though.

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

there is an undergrad in one of my classes who has thrown out every sign that she would let me have her. She is smart and funny and adorable, while at the same time being smoking hot. I absolutely cannot have her. It’s been kind of driving me crazy.

mrmonogamous · Answer

I will admit to a girl that I was in love with (prior to meeting my wife of 34 years) that I dated for a while. My love for her was not reciprocated. I moved on and met my wife. She is literally my best friend and soulmate.