Is there a reason guys want a female to tell them when they can cum?

I felt bad since technically I forgot and we kept going until I got tired I was honestly just expecting him to just finish. I asked why he wasn’t when I could tell he was close and he said because I didn’t say …. I orgasmed 3+ times I’m tiredddddd 😩 also since he’s a lot older I thought he wouldn’t have that much stamina or honestly be able to stay up but I was very wrong…. I couldn’t keep up
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  • With a man, she can tell clearly when he cums and she's proud. A man can't tell that with a woman so she needs to tell him.

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  • I don't think most guys are like that. We guys often let our partner know we're close to cumming, and we may ask her where she would like it, but it would be rare to not cum until she asks. That would also take tremendous willpower... or boredom.

Most Helpful Girl

  • They want to make sure you cum first. Many of them could pretty much blow at any time.

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  • Sounds like it was just too much fun for him and he didn't want it to end.

    • I wanted it to end lol

  • Hahahaaa you are funny. Don’t you guys like it when you cum together?
    we make the effort to cum together. It’s not a demand, not anything weird, we just like to do everything together

  • I see no reason why a guy should want that. Just enjoy the sex and the orgasms,

  • Surprising, guys aren't like that usually. Maybe this guy is caring for your pleasure so much that he wants you to say.

    • I meant to put some in the question sorry…. but yea I know it’s the first guy that told me to let them know when they can and I just thought he would do it…. There were a few times that he said he was close and I’m like ok well I’m not so I didn’t said anything but he didn’t do anything …. I would have been fine if he finished.

    • Yea I guess

  • It is a turn-on for some men to be told when they can orgasm and when they can't. They like a little bit of domination

    • I’m not a dominant person at all so it feels awkward

    • The next time he asked, can I cum. Just wait until you're finished and ready to be done and tell him to cum

  • Assuming that the guy has had good control over his ejaculation and hasn't cum too soon, then hearing his female partner say something like "I want you to cum for me baby" is a huge turn on.

  • Some guys like to be told what to do and when to do it. Could be a submissive act. It’s totally normal.

  • It’s nice to be directed

    • Directed on when?

    • donde esta la biblioteca :X

  • So they can match it at the same time

    • He wasn’t really trying to match me he wanted to keep going until I was fine but I forgot to tell him and I was ready to stop when I remembered

    • That’s more sexier that way

  • He probably gets off on it.

  • I LOVE JOI. it's my favorite porn. While I usually can't do what they say, I try my hardest to cum when they say to. It's fun and teaches patience. Patience is a virtue and good things cum to those who wait

  • for me i just want to make sure she has had an orgasm, or if they want it someplace else in or on their body

  • He mad he not get to cum

  • I do not agree. I have never been told when to cum or when not to. I cum when I chose to cum. If the handjob, blowjob, or sex is that good, she makes me cum. If it is not and I just think of someone else and cum for myself.

    • That’s fine I’m not telling you to agree I’m asking why is this happening because no other guy I’ve been with does that.

    • My misunderstanding then. Got to be like others have said, a submissive streak.

  • What is he 60 ?

    • No he’s 48

    • we are not dead at 48 or 50

    • I didn’t say you were just not what I was expecting I guess

  • It sounds hot and he wants it to last longer :)

  • Maybe he just wants to make sure you are through. My wife use to tell me to hurry up and it would hurt my feelings.

    • Well we would have kept going if I didn’t say anything but I get what you mean. After a while I did tell him that I was getting tired

  • YES... guys that want to make sure the woman has an orgasm, delays his own orgasm... if you never tell him he is being tortured with the need for release... NOT COOL

    • I didn’t mean to do that

  • I think it's really hot when done occasionally

  • That isn't all guys. Maybe he just gets off on it

    • Sorry I should have put some in the question ….. I don’t know how I feel about controlling that it would have been easier if he just said he was about to

    • Does he wait for u to tell him where or just when?

    • Both

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