Is there a way to become both asexual and aromantic?

I want to know what's it like having no asexual nor romantic attractive for anyone. I wish I didn't feel any of that.

Is there a way to become that?

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It's one thing to be single out of choice but another to really don't experience any attraction towards anyone, never have interest in finding love ever and being happy about it. I wish I was the later.
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  • I love those feelings, desires, and emotions toward the opposite. I would seriously feel such a huge void in my life without the ability and desire to express my love to a woman on every level imaginable.

    I’m sorry you feel like you don’t want these feelings. I know of no way to remove this primal set of physical and emotional needs. Were you hurt by someone? I recognize that we can be hurt by someone who was supposed to love, bad enough sometimes that its easier to not want to feel any longer. But force yourself to get back up and experience this as a joy in life again with someone you can trust. Don’t short yourself of the most basic set of joys, needs, and pleasures a person can have in life.

    • - Too much responsibilities in a relationship and then they take too much of your time. All of the sudden it's like you have to prioritize them above your friends.. it's all about them, them, them - Too much gender wars, distrust among the genders... one gender wants a different type of relationship model than the other... both are only thinking about what benefits them the most - Modern dating/love fanatics, the spread of the hooking-up culture and nothing is like before, back in the day when people were serious - Too much time or years invested for nothing. What's the point of people declaring their love and even moving in together if they're going to break up anwyays? - Too many people get stuck at dating forever when they're 30+ years old, dating and dating and nothing permanent My stance in everything in life has always been ''All or Nothing''. If I can't have it all, then I'd rather have nothing. So therefore, I wish there was a way to never experience attraction towards anyone ever again. Those people that are born like that must be so lucky.

    • All or nothing was my stance for a long time too, but now I don't expect romance.

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KwSSuSh1DxA

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  • I actually once forced myself to not think anything about sex or romance and of course not masturbate for days...
    Also worked out in those days as a distraction
    And I must say it was super hard for starting few days but eventually after a week or so no such thoughts came to my mind nor did I feel to masturbate

    But I deliberately cut it off after a few days cause I was not ready to be asexual too soon lol

    • Those people that are asexual and aromantic since birth must be so lucky. They never have to experience heartbreak, nor responsibilities in a relationship, nor disappointments, expectations, etc... none of that.

    • Kind of true I've always felt people who are damn handsome/beautiful by birth are really really lucky!!!

Most Helpful Girl

  • Well you can with hormones ask the doctor about it!

    Really a way is to be kinda depressed and lose your drive!

    Most of the time for me I need to really like the person or I don't want any!

    • I've tried to force myself to think negative but damn, I still find younger Tom Cruise (in the movie Interview with the Vampire) attractive. Sucks. Those people that are born like that and never felt attraction towards anyone are so lucky.

    • So lucky

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  • Sounds like made up words, so honestly, I would combine them and say you are asexmantic. I mean if we are just making labels and assigning meaning to them... the skys the limit.

    • I'm referring to people that have never felt any attraction (neither romantic nor sexual) towards anyone, aren't interest in finding love and are happy like that. I wish I was like them.

    • Well, that sounds pretty shitty to me. I hope you change your mind about that.

    • But they have it so lucky in life not to ever experience heartbreak nor conflicts nor drama in a relationship.

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  • Become zombie, vampires are not aromantic but zombies are both asexual and aromantic.

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/uj605sogy3I
  • I'm pretty sure you can't change your sexuality, sorry.

    • True. That sucks.

  • No, you are born with your sexual and romantic preferences.

    • That sucks. I wish I had none.

    • Why? Being an asexual sociopath sounds horrible tbh.

    • I don't mean lack of empathy. Not a sociopath. I mean lack of romantic or sexual attraction, having no sex drives at all. I want to imagine how is it like to have your family and platonic friends your whole life and never be interested in dating nor finding a romantic partner.

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  • It's not as simple as just making yourself become such. You will have the desires that you have

    • Yeah even if I tried to ignore it, I will still find a younger Tom Cruise (from Interview with the vampire) attractive. I wish I had a trouble with my hormone level. Sure it'll always be lower than the average man's but I wish it was at none. I wish I didn't have any desires for anyone.

  • You can't. You're either born that way or not. That's like saying, can I turn gay.

    • That sucks. Those people are so lucky to feel no attraction towards anyone. They have it so great in life.

    • Lucky if you like to be alone, but it sucks to be in a relationship with an asexual.

  • Start playing an MMORPG. It'll take your soul.

  • Yes, the oophorectomy.

    • That's just the removal of an ovary/both ovaries though. We can still feel attraction towards a man