I was always pretty comfortable in my skin and didn't spend time critiquing myself in the mirror. I just did my thing, although I was pretty picky about my clothes.
When I got a girlfriend shortly after beginning high school. Girls liked me. When I started surfing shortly before high school, I noticed that surfers had fantastic posture, so I made that a habit. I was very fit and very active, but skinny. I was a bit insecure about that, so I started work on building building muscle to get a more triangular shape. Although I never had interest in looking like body builder. I liked the strong, lithe, swimmer bod. When I saw myself walking toward a reflective window, I liked how I looked and moved.
So here's my story about being unsure of myself.
When I was 17, I started letting my hair grow. The hippie thing was still in fashion and I was also a surfing, skateboarding, backpacking, partying, rocker guitarist. I liked my appearance and was very comfortable with myself. But when I was 26, I was offered a professional job. I had to cut my hair and start wearing a suit.
For a while, I felt very uncomfortable. I didn't recognize myself when I looked in a mirror. I was sure everyone, even strangers, who saw me knew I was an imposter. I didn't feel like I fit in;. But I also no longer fit in with the kind of people I had been comfortable with before, either. I thought that strangers at rock concerts, festivals and parties would look at me with suspicion as if I might be a narc or something.
I had no idea what people saw when they saw me because I didn't recognize myself. It took me almost five years to get comfortable with my new persona. In the process, I grew up.
I'm confident guy... I'm sure about almost everything.
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