Is there anything you see in yourself that you're unsure of?

When you look at yourself, or are thinking of who you are, is there anything you see or feel within yourself you're unsure of?
If so what is it?
Is there anything you see in yourself that youre unsure of?
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  • I was always pretty comfortable in my skin and didn't spend time critiquing myself in the mirror. I just did my thing, although I was pretty picky about my clothes.

    When I got a girlfriend shortly after beginning high school. Girls liked me. When I started surfing shortly before high school, I noticed that surfers had fantastic posture, so I made that a habit. I was very fit and very active, but skinny. I was a bit insecure about that, so I started work on building building muscle to get a more triangular shape. Although I never had interest in looking like body builder. I liked the strong, lithe, swimmer bod. When I saw myself walking toward a reflective window, I liked how I looked and moved.

    So here's my story about being unsure of myself.
    When I was 17, I started letting my hair grow. The hippie thing was still in fashion and I was also a surfing, skateboarding, backpacking, partying, rocker guitarist. I liked my appearance and was very comfortable with myself. But when I was 26, I was offered a professional job. I had to cut my hair and start wearing a suit.

    For a while, I felt very uncomfortable. I didn't recognize myself when I looked in a mirror. I was sure everyone, even strangers, who saw me knew I was an imposter. I didn't feel like I fit in;. But I also no longer fit in with the kind of people I had been comfortable with before, either. I thought that strangers at rock concerts, festivals and parties would look at me with suspicion as if I might be a narc or something.

    I had no idea what people saw when they saw me because I didn't recognize myself. It took me almost five years to get comfortable with my new persona. In the process, I grew up.

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  • I'm confident guy... I'm sure about almost everything.

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  • Yes, a lack of self confidence.

  • Not really anything

  • Yes my health seems I breaking down fast