Is there such a thing as girls with a male foot fetish?

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Gals.. do you or any girls you know find male feet sexy? Guys.. have you ever met a girl with a male foot fetish? Is there even such a thing?

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

Well I tried to find this out, but it was too difficult, I couldn't get a definitive answer, in my research. But here's some thoughts:

I suspect that it has something to do with men's more compartmentalized brains. The area of the brain associated with the feet is apparently adjacent to the area for the sexual organs, so it's just a hop, skip, and jump, to connect them. However, this begs the question, if it was simply this, then why, or how, are female brains wired differently? I don't know the answer to that, but there are several differences, in other contexts of brain physiology, so I don't discount that there is one, in this case, but it just hasn't been uncovered or discovered yet.

For the sake of brevity, I'll refer to this, now, as foot worship. (It's also foot play, but I think the worship part is more apt to explore.)

Any part of the body can come into play, when it comes to sex. If you look at it in this way, it almost seems illogical to remove feet from the equation. Really, there is not a single other body part, or area, that is completely ignored. Hands and ears might be the most similar, if you look at the numbers of bones or something (lol), and they are most definitely always incorporated into sex.

What a lot of females have an issue with (the ones that go "ewww" at the very mention of the topic) is that they are immediately associating it with dirtiness/odour; that this is the main draw. What many don't know, is that within this realm of fetishists, there are those that like a dirty/sweaty odour, and those that are very much opposed to it, and only like pristine, perfectly clean feet (and also meticulously maintained.) People who are young, or inexperienced, or overly judgmental, often don't even consider there's a distinction.

I've never met a female foot fetishist, but I believe that's 1. Because they are more reticent to admit things that they think they might face judgment for, and 2. Females tend not to compartmentalize and fetishize as much as men do. (I mean, breasts are pretty fascinating, if you think about. I'm not surprised they get so much attention. They vary so much, and it's one thing the other sex doesn't have.) But females talking about sex pretty much just talk about the guy's chest, arms, face, hair, ass, penis, and maybe legs once in a while. It's pretty standard.

A lot of females do enjoy having their feet worshipped. But this is typical of their sex in general. They like being 'the star', the centre of attention. Also, the man being in charge, more decisive, etc. I think females not worshipping men's feet is quite logical, and expected, really, as they don't tend to worship men in general. They'll give blowjobs, yes, but that's about it. It's much less common for females to luxuriate, and pamper, and cater to their men, in ways not about the penis. (Missed opportunities.)

I liken toe-sucking to finger-sucking now, a bit. Women obviously don't have penises, and we'll never truly know what that feels like, but we do know that men like, and need, friction/tension/suction to cum, and that it's this that makes sex feel good for them (amongst other things, of course.) But orgasm won't happen without this final element being included. Putting an index (or other) finger in one's mouth, of either sex, while one rides the other, does add something (whether you're the male or female), and I think toe-sucking might be somewhat similar. But there's also caressing, massaging, tickling lightly... and as with all things in sex, it's the contrasts between these that often elevate the sensory experience. The interplay is what elevates.

Another couple of components of this topic, which I think factor in, are:

1. That feet are pretty ticklish, and having anything done to them can, to many, feel at first more ticklish or awkward, than sexually stimulating. But tickling has a lot of variability to it, too, and if you keep going through the initial ticklish feeling, the body desensitizes, or the person changes the pressure, and it morphs into a different sensation.

2. A lot of the things females do (or don't do) during sex is more related to something about them, not the man. She's very concerned about how she is coming off/looking, etc. Some guys may take a while to learn that her inhibitedness is directly related to her concerns about what he is thinking, and feeling, about her. Which typically exacerbates whatever awkwardness might have been otherwise easily quashed. So, in this context, she's going to be worried that her feet "stink" and he'll be grossed out; and she may not be able to handle that reaction. But if a guy is going down there, he's expecting it. Not all do want it, but it's part of the experience, something that they would deal with, and might feel a minor bit of uncleanliness (not major issue) is worth it. But girls don't necessarily all say this. They think "ewww" but it can be more like "eugghhh" which is fear-based that they are not good enough, their feet are not good enough. (I mean, honestly, some aren't. But some men are particular, and some men are not at all. So there you go, that's life; and that's sex.)

My personal feelings about all this have changed. I do remember, back in my approx. decade of dating/relationships before getting married (and one of those was a 3-yr relationship), there was definitely more than one lover who liked incorporating foot play. And I went through #1 and #2, and then got used to it a bit, but overall decided it wasn't a turn-on for me, it just felt ticklish, and wet, mostly; but if the guy did it right, more sensually, or with more pressure, it stopped being funny and could be more erotic. The potential was there.

What happened was, the partner that I ultimately ended up with, doesn't like it. (He's also anti-ear too, lol), so it's never been a part of our sex life, not after I tried it on him once, very briefly (for his benefit, mostly.) But I now know, since I've happened across multiple foot fetishists now, and have discussed this in varying detail with each of them, that a man being very, very, turned on by something, is the real gift, the ultimate goal. I'm not interested in sex that is all about me. I like knowing what the guys likes, and seeing if I can make that happen. All men are familiar with this sentiment, yet most women are typically mostly on the receiving end of it. Given the right man, I've discovered that I could go all-in on this, and would like nothing more than making all his fantasies come true. That look of ecstasy on the right man (and I mean top, top, top shelf, in just about every way - we women are f'ing particular, some of us), would be extremely satisfying, extremely erotic. I now question why more women wouldn't want to make that happen (provided, of course, that it wasn't compromising their values in any fundamental way. But foot worship is certainly nothing to get in a hissy about. In today's day and age, with so much reshuffling of gender, power, etc., this one is easy. So, yeah, I'd do it, for the right man, and I'd probably enjoy it. I know I would, because he would.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Oh my gosh why would any woman care about a dudes feet? Not me I more of a body builder 😂

Slingblade1126 · Accepted Answer

I've never met one but I have been with two girls that liked having their feet played with, I believe that is more common. They have a fetish for a guy with a foot fetish.

KostasKouvalis · Accepted Answer

I've met one

Ilovethesunshine · Answer

Not sure if this will be a turn off for you. I grow up into a strict Christian house hold the topic of sex was a huge No No. I never even know feet was a thing until you posted it. Would you teach me about sex? I like to learn from a smart sexy guy like you.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm one of them

Anonymous · Answer

No, but a lot of women have a hand fetish, which is just as weird.

Anonymous · Answer

yes there is

Anonymous · Answer

No...

Anonymous · Answer

I would hope not.

Is there such a thing as girls with a male foot fetish?

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